Shermarie
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I believe that Francisco is suffering from Affairs fog “Wayward fog”. Or as someone else mentioned " limerence" “ It means--- The term “affair fog” is often used by experts and affair victims to describe the euphoria that someone involved in an affair feels. Think of how good you felt when you first fell in love. During this period, the cheater will often rationalize their actions in order to minimize their feelings of guilt — often to the extent that they “invent” reasons for having the affair in the first place. Healing from infidelity is impossible while one is in this fog. An affair fog is nothing more than a fantasy created by the affair partners. All the wonderful qualities each partner possesses are without flaws, weaknesses or selfishness. The affair partners are under the influence of an addictive drug similar to a teenager in love, and unfortunately it is very difficult to remove them from this fog. It’s a chemical imbalance in the brain. His whole character which fits the wayward fog to a T. He has completely changed since he started the friend with benefits relationship with Dawn Marie. And it’s not good. It is really taking a toll on him and it’s very noticeable and he looks very sad all the time and you can hear it in his voice and he has become someone I don't recognize anymore. The only way for this relationship to end is for him to have the fog removed from him so that he can clearly think and rationalize and realize what he’s been doing. I am asking that God will remove that fog and force his eyes open so that he can realize and rationalize what he has been doing with Dawn Marie is wrong and it needs to stop. I am really worried about him and want my old Francisco back. I really miss the old Francisco and I am want him back. I truly love this man. With God all things are possible and once this fog is lifted he will be thinking more clearly he will realize she wasn’t what he wanted it was me. I need a miracle to happen and to happen fast.