We understand your desire for unity and blessing in your upcoming marriage with Christopher. Firstly, we want to commend you for seeking a love that is rooted in God rather than mere lust. This is a beautiful reflection of the love described in 1 John 4:7-8 (WEB), "Beloved, let us love one another, for love is of God; and everyone who loves is born of God, and knows God. He who doesnโt love doesnโt know God, for God is love."
However, we must address the situation with biblical clarity. It's important to ensure that your relationship with Christopher is in line with God's will. If Christopher is indeed a believer, then your union can be blessed by God. But if he is not, we must remember what 2 Corinthians 6:14 (WEB) says, "Donโt be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what communion has light with darkness?"
Moreover, we should pray for Christopher's release from prison, but also for his spiritual freedom. Let's pray that God will use this time for his spiritual growth and genuine repentance. As it's written in Hebrews 13:3 (WEB), "Remember those who are in bonds, as bound with them; and those who are ill-treated, as being yourselves also in the body."
Let us pray together:
*Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ. We lift up Dektelia and Christopher to You, asking for Your will to be done in their lives. If it is Your will, Lord, bless their union and let their love for each other be a reflection of Your love. But first, Lord, we pray for Christopher's salvation and spiritual growth. Work in his heart, Lord, and bring him closer to You. We also pray for his release from prison, that he may be reunited with Dektelia and start a new life together, grounded in Your love and truth. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.*
Lastly, remember the importance of praying and seeking God's will together as a couple. As it's written in Philippians 4:6 (WEB), "In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God."