I and my bf need his parent's accept me.

[Anonymous]

I am 16 and my bf is 17. We both have been crushing on each other for 2 yrs since 2022. But in this year he asked out. We were happy for 8 months together. But one day his mom had asked about me and he had to tell this to her. She had asked to stop this. She had told that our families are not matching and it will make problems in the future. We are in the same church and she had told that us wearing neat denims to the church is not appropriate and my body language is not good and etc. But i know we are decent because we wont go to the church indecently. Meanwhile two people in our church had passed rumors about i and my family and i feel like that has caused her to reject me. I gotta know those rumors from my bf cuz his parents only gotta know them. They do believe those rumors i guess. His dad doesn't know this but he had asked him not to hv a girl from our church and let their dreams get faded. And yes his family is with great musicians. Even my bf. But i am not. I can just sing and can play few intruments but not professional.There are few cousins of me that is not decent but yeah we are not like that. When I gotta crush on him i prayed saying, "dear God if he is the right person, please make him my bf. If not please let me set my mind and loose feelings for him." But yeah after two years i got him. I had faith on God. But this december we had to stop our relationship. Because he should obey his parents and he owes his family a lot and also he got his musical reputation from his family. But still we love each other so much. Be we used to be like friends. We pray a lot. Actually we don't know what will happen. We pray asking God to do the best. Sometimes we just feel like to forget each other forever as lovers. But when i try to do that something will happen somehow and stop happening that. Even in that waiting period of 2 yrs tje same thing happened over and over again when i was about to loose feelings. But now i hv no clue because we cant go beyond our parents word. But i and my bf both wish if a miracle take place. We really don't hv any hope now. But hope god will do the best for us. We pray for this. But we still love each other so much and we cant stop loving. This is our 1st love. But we never thought this will happen. We are like lost. Actually cuz we loved each other, we were used to show our bodies to each other through video calls. And couple of times he has touched me even. That much we loved each other. But we never go beyond touching and seeing. But now we feel like we were temped to do such a bad thing. Will god forgive us? But yeah we are happy cuz we dont look at each other with a bad eye. But if we tell this to our future partner if we both wont be able to marry that will be a very big problem too. What can we do? Please pray for us. What can we do for this? Thank you so much if you are ready to give me advices. God bless you.

 

[Articles]

Thank you for reaching out and sharing your situation with us. We understand that this is a challenging time for you, and we want to help guide you through the lens of biblical principles.

Firstly, it's important to address the nature of your relationship. While you have strong feelings for each other, it's crucial to align your relationship with biblical principles. The Bible encourages us to honor our parents (Ephesians 6:2) and to flee from sexual immorality (1 Corinthians 6:18). The activities you mentioned, such as showing your bodies to each other and physical touch, are considered fornication, which is sinful and we need to call it for what it is. Even further, Christ tells us in Matthew 5:28 But I tell you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart. It is important to repent of these sins and ask God for forgiveness, just as King David very sincerely asks God for forgiveness and a clean heart in Psalms 51:1 Have mercy on me, God, according to your loving kindness. According to your abundant compassion, blot out my disobedience. Psalms 51:10 Create in me a clean heart, O God. Renew a right spirit within me. God is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness (1 John 1:9).

It's commendable that you both pray together, but remember, it's only through the name of Jesus that we have access to God. As it is written in John 14:6, Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me. And in Acts 4:12, There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given among men by which we must be saved. Make sure you both pray to God the Father, through the name of Jesus Christ. If you have not already, you need to believe and confess that Jesus Christ is Lord and that He died on the cross, paying the penalty for your sin, and physically arose from the dead.

Regarding your relationship, it's wise to involve your parents and seek their blessing. However, it's also important to consider that marriage, which is being courted, is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman. And you are not ready yet because you are both very young and also the relationship in its current form seems to not align with biblical principles in that fornication and immorality are currently taking place. Continue to pray and seek God's will. If it is not His will for you to be together for now or forever, He may reveal that to you in proper time as well.

It's also important to address the rumors and judgments made against you and your family. Remember, God sees the heart and knows the truth. 1 Samuel 16:7 says, For man looks at the outward appearance, but Yahweh looks at the heart. Trust in God and don't be we have to be careful here and Scripture discusses in Ephesians 5:8-11 that we are to believe the truth rather than any seemingly believable deception that may ultimately be false.

Here is a prayer for you:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You today, lifting up this young couple to You. Lord, we ask for Your forgiveness for the sins they have committed and pray that You would cleanse them from all unrighteousness. Guide them with Your wisdom and help them to align their relationship with Your will and Your word. Help them to honor their parents and to seek Your perfect will for their lives.

Lord or"is it not"a hear the rumors and judgments made against them, and we pray that You would reveal the truth and silence any false accusations. Help them to trust in You and to not become discouraged or disheartened. Be there with them that even if the relationship is not Your will and "give them the strength to move on in Jesus name."

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Be encouraged by the words in Jeremiah 29:11, There are plans for welfare and not calamity to give you a future and a hope.. You are both in good hands with Jesus who made you, sustains you, and loves you more intimately than any relationship.

 

[hostadmin]

Hey there,

We're really sorry to hear that you're going through this. It's tough when the people we care about don't accept our relationships. But remember, God sees your heart and knows the truth. He's got your back, no matter what.

We know it's hard, but it might be worth trying to have an open, honest conversation with your boyfriend's parents. Maybe they just need to hear your side of things. And who knows, they might surprise you with their understanding and support.

In the meantime, keep praying together. It's amazing how God can work in our lives when we invite Him into our struggles. And remember, God's got a plan for you. Trust in Him, even when it's hard.

Keep fighting the good fight, and remember, you're not alone. We're praying for you too.

 

[Anonymous]

Thank you for reaching out and sharing your situation with us. We understand that this is a challenging time for you, and we want to help guide you through the lens of biblical principles.

Firstly, it's important to address the nature of your relationship. While you have strong feelings for each other, it's crucial to align your relationship with biblical principles. The Bible encourages us to honor our parents (Ephesians 6:2) and to flee from sexual immorality (1 Corinthians 6:18). The activities you mentioned, such as showing your bodies to each other and physical touch, are considered fornication, which is sinful and we need to call it for what it is. Even further, Christ tells us in Matthew 5:28 But I tell you that everyone who looks at a woman with lustful intent has already committed adultery with her in his heart. It is important to repent of these sins and ask God for forgiveness, just as King David very sincerely asks God for forgiveness and a clean heart in Psalms 51:1 Have mercy on me, God, according to your loving kindness. According to your abundant compassion, blot out my disobedience. Psalms 51:10 Create in me a clean heart, O God. Renew a right spirit within me. God is faithful and just to forgive us our sins and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness (1 John 1:9).

It's commendable that you both pray together, but remember, it's only through the name of Jesus that we have access to God. As it is written in John 14:6, Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me. And in Acts 4:12, There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given among men by which we must be saved. Make sure you both pray to God the Father, through the name of Jesus Christ. If you have not already, you need to believe and confess that Jesus Christ is Lord and that He died on the cross, paying the penalty for your sin, and physically arose from the dead.

Regarding your relationship, it's wise to involve your parents and seek their blessing. However, it's also important to consider that marriage, which is being courted, is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman. And you are not ready yet because you are both very young and also the relationship in its current form seems to not align with biblical principles in that fornication and immorality are currently taking place. Continue to pray and seek God's will. If it is not His will for you to be together for now or forever, He may reveal that to you in proper time as well.

It's also important to address the rumors and judgments made against you and your family. Remember, God sees the heart and knows the truth. 1 Samuel 16:7 says, For man looks at the outward appearance, but Yahweh looks at the heart. Trust in God and don't be we have to be careful here and Scripture discusses in Ephesians 5:8-11 that we are to believe the truth rather than any seemingly believable deception that may ultimately be false.

Here is a prayer for you:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You today, lifting up this young couple to You. Lord, we ask for Your forgiveness for the sins they have committed and pray that You would cleanse them from all unrighteousness. Guide them with Your wisdom and help them to align their relationship with Your will and Your word. Help them to honor their parents and to seek Your perfect will for their lives.

Lord or"is it not"a hear the rumors and judgments made against them, and we pray that You would reveal the truth and silence any false accusations. Help them to trust in You and to not become discouraged or disheartened. Be there with them that even if the relationship is not Your will and "give them the strength to move on in Jesus name."

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Be encouraged by the words in Jeremiah 29:11, There are plans for welfare and not calamity to give you a future and a hope.. You are both in good hands with Jesus who made you, sustains you, and loves you more intimately than any relationship.

Thank you so much and may god bless you. ❤

 

[Anonymous]

Hey there,

We're really sorry to hear that you're going through this. It's tough when the people we care about don't accept our relationships. But remember, God sees your heart and knows the truth. He's got your back, no matter what.

We know it's hard, but it might be worth trying to have an open, honest conversation with your boyfriend's parents. Maybe they just need to hear your side of things. And who knows, they might surprise you with their understanding and support.

In the meantime, keep praying together. It's amazing how God can work in our lives when we invite Him into our struggles. And remember, God's got a plan for you. Trust in Him, even when it's hard.

Keep fighting the good fight, and remember, you're not alone. We're praying for you too.

Thank you so much and may god bless you. ❤

 

[Daliah]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[flora]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[justinvd]

I have prayed for you in Jesus name.

**Please pray for your fellow Christian/Saints on the board as Ephesians 6:18 commands.

"Pray at all times in the Spirit, with every prayer and request, and stay alert in this, with all perseverance and intercession for all the saints"

 

[usha rani]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Eramas]

Hey there,

We're really sorry to hear that you're going through this. It's tough when the people we care about don't accept our relationships. But remember, God sees your heart and knows the truth. He's got your back, no matter what.

We know it's hard, but it might be worth trying to have an open, honest conversation with your boyfriend's parents. Maybe they just need to hear your side of things. And who knows, they might surprise you with their understanding and support.

In the meantime, keep praying together. It's amazing how God can work in our lives when we invite Him into our struggles. And remember, God's got a plan for you. Trust in Him, even when it's hard.

Keep fighting the good fight, and remember, you're not alone. We're praying for you too.