i am surrendering, but do i also need to take action

[Aparchologeo]

titles expressed what's most important, i got a vague text from someone i truly no longer want in my life, while i have struggled and stumbled in letting this person go- i know it is right to cut him out of my life, i find it is crucial to my healing, as for me- it was a severely co-dependent relationship, which taught me how i have very deep wounds when it comes to love- i am grateful every day for what this experience has taught me,- but now back to this present day- this person can no longer fit into my life, and i cannot fit in theirs, the history is too painful *for me*, i am doing this because i know myself, and how i need to harshly protect myself from becoming co-dependant again. we can't be friends. i know i am terrible for this, i have accepted my wrongdoing in this, and i accept how uncomfortable the consequences will be for me doing this action against this person. i truly do. but i do not wish to reply back- maybe i am scared to say it to their face, that i no longer wish for them to be in my life- i just do not want to explain to them,- they act like they don't care when they do care, and they act like they care when they don't actually care.. this has been over a year of wanting this to work and it left me in ruins at times (my own fault for being blind, i take that responsibility)- i dont want to talk to them, but maybe i just dont want closure.. maybe I'm still scared... i want to never talk to them again, and have them forget about me and i forget about them.. bring this person peace God, or else guide me on what to do, do not let my heart guide me, please be the thing that guides me Lord. Christ Jesus hold me, save me.

 

[Articles]

We understand your struggle and commend you for recognizing the importance of letting go of a relationship that has been harmful to you. It is clear that you have been through a painful experience, and it is crucial to find healing and closure. First, let us remind you of God's presence and love:

"Cast your burden on Yahweh, and he will sustain you. He will never allow the righteous to be moved." (Psalm 55:22, WEB)

It is clear that this relationship has been a source of codependency and pain. While it is good to acknowledge your responsibility in the situation, it is also important to understand that God wants to guide and protect you moving forward. You do not need to engage in further communication with this person if it causes you distress and leads you back into a destructive cycle.

Regarding your fear and reluctance to explain your decision to this person, remember that God does not want you to live in fear. He desires for you to trust Him fully and find courage in Him:

"For God didn’t give us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control." (2 Timothy 1:7, WEB)

You have acknowledged that this relationship is not healthy for you, and it is right to prioritize your own well-being. Pray for God's wisdom and guidance in this situation:

**Prayer:**

**Father God, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, seeking Your divine wisdom and guidance for our dear sister. Lord, You know the pain and struggle she has endured in this relationship. We ask that You give her the strength and courage to make the right decisions according to Your will. Help her to let go of this person and find healing in You. Guard her heart and mind with Your peace, and lead her away from fear and into Your perfect love. Lord, we also pray for the other person involved, that they may find peace and understanding. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.**

It is encouraging to see that you have called upon the name of Jesus Christ. He is the only way to salvation and the source of true healing and peace:

"for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved!" (Acts 4:12, WEB)

Trust in Him, and He will guide your steps. You do not need to rely on your own heart for guidance, but rather on the Holy Spirit who dwells within you. Be assured that God loves you deeply and wants the best for you.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, and we understand the struggle you're going through. It's brave of you to acknowledge that this relationship isn't healthy and that you need to let go. We're reminded of Psalm 147:3, "He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds." God sees your pain and wants to heal you.

We know it's hard to let go, but remember, "A wise man changes his mind, and a fool, never" (Proverbs 29:11, WEB). It's okay to change your mind about what's best for you. You don't have to explain yourself to this person. It's okay to prioritize your own well-being.

We're here to pray with you. "Lord, please heal our sister's heart. Give her the strength to let go and find peace. Help her to trust in Your love and guidance. Comfort her and guide her, in Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

 

[ellie12]

Please God answer this request according to Your Will,IJNA

 

[Brother James]

titles expressed what's most important, i got a vague text from someone i truly no longer want in my life, while i have struggled and stumbled in letting this person go- i know it is right to cut him out of my life, i find it is crucial to my healing, as for me- it was a severely co-dependent relationship, which taught me how i have very deep wounds when it comes to love- i am grateful every day for what this experience has taught me,- but now back to this present day- this person can no longer fit into my life, and i cannot fit in theirs, the history is too painful *for me*, i am doing this because i know myself, and how i need to harshly protect myself from becoming co-dependant again. we can't be friends. i know i am terrible for this, i have accepted my wrongdoing in this, and i accept how uncomfortable the consequences will be for me doing this action against this person. i truly do. but i do not wish to reply back- maybe i am scared to say it to their face, that i no longer wish for them to be in my life- i just do not want to explain to them,- they act like they don't care when they do care, and they act like they care when they don't actually care.. this has been over a year of wanting this to work and it left me in ruins at times (my own fault for being blind, i take that responsibility)- i dont want to talk to them, but maybe i just dont want closure.. maybe I'm still scared... i want to never talk to them again, and have them forget about me and i forget about them.. bring this person peace God, or else guide me on what to do, do not let my heart guide me, please be the thing that guides me Lord. Christ Jesus hold me, save me.

Praying for you in Jesus. I would probably answer them through Scripture and say something like; How much of the Bible would you like to discuss? Do you believe in Jesus? You know the Word of God that was made flesh for us, died for our sins, is risen from the dead and is at the ready to call us to join Him in the Clouds of Glory. That’s just me, what I would do.

Do you Believe Jesus died for our sins, is Risen from the dead, is Preparing a place for us and is about to call us to join Him?

Are you watching for Jesus in the Clouds of Glory? Jesus is about to call us to join Him!

We can do everything Jesus did and more! We can speak; sickness leave in Jesus! Be healed by Jesus stripes! I am healed by Jesus stripes! Amen! Thank You Lord Jesus!

You can copy and paste this to pray every day and share...

There is nothing that happens for us that is bad. All things work for our good in Jesus! Look at everything as good!

Sing through out your days Thank You Jesus, Praise You Jesus, Glory to You Lord Jesus or anything that is on your heart to sing to Jesus! It doesn't matter how we sound, Angels will join in with us and Jesus will join in with us as well as fight for us, knock down walls for us, open locks for us, save people for us, evil will flee from us, He heals us and He will over flow His Holy Peace in us.

Praying for others on here and reading your Bible will help you tremendously.

I wanted to commit suicide once, I even came up with a plan. Right before I headed out the door I posted a prayer on here and hoping there might be help from God one last time I opened the Bible and only read take no thought for your life. I read that before at least 100 times but never really could understand how. This time I took it to heart, all right God I will end my life by not thinking about it. I take no thought, I take no thought, I take no thought over and over and over again I take no thought was my only thought that day. All of a sudden I noticed something, Jesus showed up, all my pains were gone, no neck ache, no back pain, no leg pain from many many accidents I had over the years and no pain in my heart as my wife had left me. I started singing praises and thanks to Jesus and my life has never been the same. It is our obedience to God from His Holy Instructions that makes a difference to His Power of His Promises in our lives.

Be a doer of Jesus friend, it really makes a difference! Thank You Lord Jesus!

Search the Bible for Jesus' Promises friend, do them and claim them in Jesus! Amen! Thank You Lord Jesus!

Powerful healing promise hidden in Proverbs 3:7-8, I am not wise in my own eyes, I fear You Lord, I depart from evil, especially my own evil thoughts and my flesh is healed and my body is refreshed in Jesus.

Praying for others especially in your situation will help you tremendously in yours friend.

Take no thought for your life dear friend and Jesus will take thought for you. Sing praises and thanks to Jesus and He will overflow His Holy Spirit in you and so much more. He will fight for you and give you the desires of your heart.

Pray this prayer look up the verses and pray it again with your friends and family and let's mount up with wings as eagles and soar. Soar with me.

Let Us Pray: God I ask in Jesus' name, bless me to grow closer to You. I long for a more intimate relationship with You. God I take You at Your Word, if I will draw closer to You, You will draw closer to me (James 4:8). Show me how to draw closer to You. Bless me daily to cast off and forsake my thoughts and ways for my life, and exchange them for Your thoughts and ways for my life. Let me think Your thoughts and dream Your dreams for my life. God bless me to live and walk in Your love, mercy and forgiveness (Isaiah 55:7). I confess, I will take no thought for my life. I will trust You Father God to take thought for me and take care of me (Mathew 6:25-34). I will not be wise in my own eyes, I will fear You Lord and depart from evil and my flesh will be healed and my body will be refreshed (Proverbs 3:7-8) daily. Thank You Jesus for Your Promises! Lord make me the Child of God You need me to be in Christ for all those around me and for the world to see (Psalms 128:3). Not by my might, nor by my power, but by Your Spirt Christ Jesus (Zechariah 4:6) this shall happen. And it will happen, it is happening now in Your timing, Power, Strength, Might, and Spirit, Christ Jesus. God all that I have asked of you in this prayer please do the same for all those I love, care about, and every faithful prayer warrior on this site. Thank You, Thank You, Thank You Lord Jesus, my Savior and Lord for answering this prayer with a Yes and Amen.

Bless us to sing praises and thanks to You Lord Jesus so You can fill us with the wine of the Spirit in Jesus Name, Amen.

 

[EnricoLange]

Lord Jesus please richly bless, protect, heal and guide them. Please help them in accordance with your perfect will Father. Thank you and praise you. In your holy name I pray. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.