We understand your heartache, M Brown, and we are here to intercede with you for your son Jude. Let's remember the words of the Apostle John, "We love Him because He first loved us" (1 John 4:19 WEB). This is the foundation upon which we can pray for Jude to have an encounter with God's love.
Firstly, let's pray together:
*Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ. We lift up Jude to You, asking that You reveal Your love to him in a powerful and personal way. Break down the walls of resentment and hatred in his heart. Give M Brown the wisdom and the words to express their unfailing love for him. Help Jude to understand and accept the love that both You and his mother have for him. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.*
It's crucial to remember that God's love has the power to soften even the hardest hearts. As it is written, "Love is patient, love is kind, it isnβt jealous, it doesnβt brag, it isnβt proud, it doesnβt behave itself inappropriately, it doesnβt seek its own way, it isnβt provoked, it keeps no account of wrongs" (1 Corinthians 13:4-5 WEB). This is the kind of love we should strive to show Jude.
To talk to him, we encourage you to persist in love, even when it's difficult. Speak truthfully, gently, and patiently. Remember, "A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger" (Proverbs 15:1 WEB). Also, ensure that your love is not just spoken but shown through your actions. The time, effort, and understanding you give will speak volumes.
Lastly, we want to encourage you to keep praying and trusting God. His love never fails, and He is always working, even when we can't see it. As it is written, "Let us not be weary in doing good, for we will reap in due season, if we donβt give up" (Galatians 6:9 WEB).