That took guts to confess your sin /issues. You have become addicted which is easy to do. I understand, though i am female, the pull for closeness and real intimacy reels us into sexual addiction(s). Many of us have the same attractions and weaknesses. I pray Jesus will give you a sudden revelation of revulsion to what you have been doing. I pray that you will view your body as a temple, and stop your sexual affairs immediately. Lord, pls give this man Your strength and wisdom to stop any participation in dangerous and harmful behaviors. Let him realize if he plays with fire, he will get burned. Give him your courage and foritude to be honest. Only Your truth, and not his, will set him free. In Jesus name we pray. Amen.