JessicaBeloved
Disciple of Prayer
I'm praying for someone in my life, a companion friend and partner who would be a blessing to me and I to them. I'm lonely and in need of companionship.
I am lonely
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We understand that you're feeling lonely and desire companionship. It's important to remember that God cares about every detail of our lives, including our relationships. We should not be unequally yoked together with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with unrighteousness? And what communion has light with darkness? (2 Corinthians 6:14,WEB). Therefore, we should only seek relationships with fellow believers in Jesus Christ.
Firstly, let us address your loneliness.
It is important to be thankful and content even when you are not in a relationship. The Bible tells us, "Not that I speak because of lack, for I have learned in whatever state I am, to be content in it. I know how to be humbled, and I know also how to abound. In everything and in all things I have learned the secret both to be filled and to be hungry, both to abound and to be in need. I can do all things through Christ, who strengthens me." (Philippians 4:11-13WEB).
Contentment can only be learned and it is through Christ that we can find contentment in every situation.
It's also important to note that you used the word partner. We must be clear that if you are a Christian, you should not be seeking a partner but a spouse, in particular a godly spouse.
Let's look at what the Bible says about marriage because anything else is considered fornication or possibly even adultery. Hebrews 13:4 says, "Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled: but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers.(WEB)."
As a Christian, we need to know God's will for our life before we can know God's will for who we should marry. Therefore, you must be praying and seeking God's will for your life. Do not become unequally yoked together with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with unrighteousness? And what communion has light with darkness? (2 Corinthians 6:14WEB).
You need to know that there is no other name by which we can be saved. Let it be known to you all, and to all the people of Israel, that in the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth, whom you crucified, whom God raised from the dead, in him does this man stand here before you whole. He is 'the stone which was regarded as worthless by you, the builders, which has become the head of the corner.' There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!" (Acts 4:10-12WEB). "whoever will call on the name of the Lord will be saved.'(Romans 10:13WEB).
It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. And whatever you may ask in my name, I will do it.(John 14:13WEB).
Let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up this beloved sister/brother who is feeling lonely and seeking companionship. Firstly, we ask that you will grant them contentment in their situation and that you will help them learn to be content in Jesus Christ. We pray that You will reveal Your will for their life so that they can know Your will for who they should marry. We pray that You will guide them to a godly spouse, someone who loves You and seeks to serve You. We ask that You will bless their future union and use it for Your glory. We rebuke any temptation to find someone for the wrong reasons or to make an idol of their future spouse. We trust in Your perfect timing and wisdom.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Be encouraged, for God knows the desires of your heart. He loves you deeply and has a plan for your life, including your relationships. Trust in Him, for His ways are higher than our ways, and His thoughts than our thoughts. (Isaiah 55:8-9WEB).
Firstly, let us address your loneliness.
It is important to be thankful and content even when you are not in a relationship. The Bible tells us, "Not that I speak because of lack, for I have learned in whatever state I am, to be content in it. I know how to be humbled, and I know also how to abound. In everything and in all things I have learned the secret both to be filled and to be hungry, both to abound and to be in need. I can do all things through Christ, who strengthens me." (Philippians 4:11-13WEB).
Contentment can only be learned and it is through Christ that we can find contentment in every situation.
It's also important to note that you used the word partner. We must be clear that if you are a Christian, you should not be seeking a partner but a spouse, in particular a godly spouse.
Let's look at what the Bible says about marriage because anything else is considered fornication or possibly even adultery. Hebrews 13:4 says, "Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled: but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers.(WEB)."
As a Christian, we need to know God's will for our life before we can know God's will for who we should marry. Therefore, you must be praying and seeking God's will for your life. Do not become unequally yoked together with unbelievers. For what fellowship has righteousness with unrighteousness? And what communion has light with darkness? (2 Corinthians 6:14WEB).
You need to know that there is no other name by which we can be saved. Let it be known to you all, and to all the people of Israel, that in the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth, whom you crucified, whom God raised from the dead, in him does this man stand here before you whole. He is 'the stone which was regarded as worthless by you, the builders, which has become the head of the corner.' There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!" (Acts 4:10-12WEB). "whoever will call on the name of the Lord will be saved.'(Romans 10:13WEB).
It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. And whatever you may ask in my name, I will do it.(John 14:13WEB).
Let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up this beloved sister/brother who is feeling lonely and seeking companionship. Firstly, we ask that you will grant them contentment in their situation and that you will help them learn to be content in Jesus Christ. We pray that You will reveal Your will for their life so that they can know Your will for who they should marry. We pray that You will guide them to a godly spouse, someone who loves You and seeks to serve You. We ask that You will bless their future union and use it for Your glory. We rebuke any temptation to find someone for the wrong reasons or to make an idol of their future spouse. We trust in Your perfect timing and wisdom.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Be encouraged, for God knows the desires of your heart. He loves you deeply and has a plan for your life, including your relationships. Trust in Him, for His ways are higher than our ways, and His thoughts than our thoughts. (Isaiah 55:8-9WEB).
We're here with you, feeling your loneliness and longing for companionship. It's natural to desire a special someone to share life with, but remember, God is always by your side, and His love is constant. Let's focus on finding contentment in Him, just as Paul did in Philippians 4:11-13. He found the secret to being filled and hungry, abounding and in need, all through Christ.
We also heard you mention a 'partner'. As Christians, we should be seeking a spouse, not just a partner. God's word in Hebrews 13:4 tells us to honor marriage and keep the bed undefiled. So, let's pray and seek God's will for your life and future spouse. Remember, we should not be unequally yoked with unbelievers (2 Corinthians 6:14).
Let's trust in God's timing and wisdom. There's no other name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:10-12, Romans 10:13). Jesus said, "Whatever you ask in my name, I will do it" (John 14:13). So, let's ask together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name. We lift up this dear ###, feeling lonely and seeking companionship. We ask for contentment in their situation, and help in learning to be content in Jesus Christ. Reveal Your will for their life, guide them to a godly spouse, and bless their future union. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Be encouraged, God knows your heart's desires and has a plan for your life, including your relationships. Trust in Him, for His ways are higher than ours (Isaiah 55:8-9).
We also heard you mention a 'partner'. As Christians, we should be seeking a spouse, not just a partner. God's word in Hebrews 13:4 tells us to honor marriage and keep the bed undefiled. So, let's pray and seek God's will for your life and future spouse. Remember, we should not be unequally yoked with unbelievers (2 Corinthians 6:14).
Let's trust in God's timing and wisdom. There's no other name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:10-12, Romans 10:13). Jesus said, "Whatever you ask in my name, I will do it" (John 14:13). So, let's ask together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name. We lift up this dear ###, feeling lonely and seeking companionship. We ask for contentment in their situation, and help in learning to be content in Jesus Christ. Reveal Your will for their life, guide them to a godly spouse, and bless their future union. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Be encouraged, God knows your heart's desires and has a plan for your life, including your relationships. Trust in Him, for His ways are higher than ours (Isaiah 55:8-9).
JessicaBeloved
Disciple of Prayer
This is why I didn't want to ask for prayer. Someone else posted the exact same thing and people just prayed for them that they would have a companion in their lives. Is it too much to ask but instead of getting a long list of things that remind me that Christ is enough and all of these things is it too much to ask that you just please don't play keep me or condescend me with all these other things that I don't already know that I haven't already spent years praying over and meditating on and just pray for someone in my life that's all I'm asking I'm frustrated by this I saw another post that said this exact same thing that I wrote here and I thought look at how everybody responded everyone responded with Lord hear this person's cry for companion send them someone to be with them...
But every time I post this is a type of answer I get and I don't want to hear it anymore I get it every time I just want someone for once to just sit with me and pray that God would send me a loving companion that's it and it's not a huge ask if you don't want to pray that for me then don't write anything at all because you're not helping it's discouraging and it's tiresome to hear this type of response it is not beneficial and most of the time it is the type of response that breeds and plant seeds of bitterness and resentment towards the bride of Christ for not praying for that person to find companionship. I spend hours of my day in Bible study in prayer and reflection I spend so much time with the Lord because I don't have anyone else except my parents I'm asking for companion in my life I'm asking for a partner and a friend to live life with please just pray that for me.
But every time I post this is a type of answer I get and I don't want to hear it anymore I get it every time I just want someone for once to just sit with me and pray that God would send me a loving companion that's it and it's not a huge ask if you don't want to pray that for me then don't write anything at all because you're not helping it's discouraging and it's tiresome to hear this type of response it is not beneficial and most of the time it is the type of response that breeds and plant seeds of bitterness and resentment towards the bride of Christ for not praying for that person to find companionship. I spend hours of my day in Bible study in prayer and reflection I spend so much time with the Lord because I don't have anyone else except my parents I'm asking for companion in my life I'm asking for a partner and a friend to live life with please just pray that for me.
Rabi
Disciple of Prayer
Rabi
Disciple of Prayer
Dear sister ###. I pray in the mighty name of Jesus, Lord bless this sister take away her loneness, give her a loving partner fill her life with happiness, Lord you know her heart desire father, we believe you have created a godly man for her, Lord father please help her to find him. I pray in the mighty name of Jesus amen.
usha rani
Beloved of All
Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.
Cinu
Beloved of All
Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.
Some resources that might help.
Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)
Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)
Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)
Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)
Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)
Help in Prayer
Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)
Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)
sermons
Be a Prayer Warrior: “Praying for others”
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