I am in a toxic marriage. I ...

[Tochgee]

I am in a toxic marriage. I always saw the warning signs and ignored them or explained them away by trying to change through love is what i told myself. I prayed about this relationship and told God that if I wasn't supposed to be with this man, that x y and z would happen. Well x & y happened. and I stayed. 3 1/2 years later, we have a daughter and are married... I now believe that this was not the marriage or relationship God intended for me. I tried to take control and put myself here. I believe that my daughter is a blessing. A way of God taking something broken and bringing beauty from it. We argue, bad. We scream and yell, holes in the wall and door, he throws divorce around. I am not saying that he is all to blame, I have my toxic behaviors that do not help the matters, but i do believe that while he may not be a full-on narcissist, he has qualities of one. I am a Christian, as is he. But i have found myself wanting out. I have not been the one to want a divorce, but in our last recent argument he mentioned it and I said fine. Now something has shifted in me, and I do not believe that things will truly change. I have been praying for a change in the relationship or deliverance from it. There were many times I should have walked away before we were married, and did not. Iam struggling with the thought of praying for this man to violate our vows even more just so I can leave it. But we are not healthy for each other, or a good example of love and marriage for our daughter. I need prayers for discernment and strength, as well as change or deliverance. But that I would be obedient to whatever the will of God may be.

 

[Articles]

Heavenly Father,

We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our dear sister Tochgee and her marriage. Lord, You see the struggles and the pain that she is enduring. We ask for Your divine intervention in this situation. Your Word tells us in James 1:5 that if any of us lacks wisdom, we should ask You, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to us. We pray for discernment and wisdom for Tochgee as she navigates this difficult season.

Father, we acknowledge that You are a God who brings beauty from ashes . We thank You for the blessing of her daughter, a precious gift amidst the turmoil. We ask that You protect her heart and mind, and that she may grow up knowing Your love and grace.

Lord, we pray for healing and transformation in this marriage. We ask that You soften hearts, remove toxic behaviors, and replace them with the fruits of the Spirit—love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control . If it is Your will for this marriage to be restored, we pray for a miraculous change that only You can bring.

However, if deliverance is Your will, we pray for the strength and courage for Tochgee to follow Your guidance. Help her to be obedient to Your will, trusting that You have plans to prosper her and not to harm her, plans to give her hope and a future .

We also pray for her husband, that he may experience a true transformation through Your Holy Spirit. Break any chains of narcissism or other toxic traits that bind him, and bring him to a place of genuine repentance and change.

Lord, we place this entire situation in Your hands, knowing that You are sovereign and that Your plans are perfect. We trust in Your timing and Your ways. May Your will be done in Tochgee's life and in her marriage.

In Jesus' mighty name, we pray. Amen.

 

[Greg2]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[EnricoLange]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[usha rani]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[A C / A O]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

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God heal me, body, soul, and spirit. Cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You or breaks Your heart. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, pray Your best for me, and all those I love and care about. God please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

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[sade]

I am in a toxic marriage. I always saw the warning signs and ignored them or explained them away by trying to change through ljove is what i told myself. I prayed about this relationship and told God that if I wasn't supposed to be with this man, that x y and z would happen. Well x & y happened. and I stayed. 3 1/2 years later, we have a daughter and are married... I now believe that this was not the marriage or relationship God intended for me. I tried to take control and put myself here. I believe that my daughter is a blessing. A way of God taking something broken and bringing beauty from it. We argue, bad. We scream and yell, holes in the wall and door, he throws divorce around. I am not saying that he is all to blame, I have my toxic behaviors that do not help the matters, but i do believe that while he may not be a full-on narcissist, he has qualities of one. I am a Christian, as is he. But i have found myself wanting out. I have not been the one to want a divorce, but in our last recent argument he mentioned it and I said fine. Now something has shifted in me, and I do not believe that things will truly change. I have been praying for a change in the relationship or deliverance from it. There were many times I should have walked away before we were married, and did not. Iam struggling with the thought of praying for this man to violate our vows even more just so I can leave it. But we are not healthy for each other, or a good example of love and marriage for our daughter. I need prayers for discernment and strength, as well as change or deliverance. But that I would be obedient to whatever the will of God may be.

Lord I know what a toxic relationship feels like, you lose yourself everyday, you compromise to save it. Lord I pray you remove Tochgee from this situation if it cannot be mended, Lord lift her out safely and her child. Lord I pray they come to a conclusion in Jesus name realizing it's no environment to raise a child in a Godly manner.