I am 19 years old and discovered ...

[Lochander]

I am 19 years old and discovered I am pregnant. My 22-year-old boyfriend of a year and a half is shocked but happier about it than I am. He is an amazing man who just graduated college and got an amazing job. We decided we are going to get married, a home, and start a life together. Everyone is happy but me. I am so afraid, angry, sad, and excited. I am not sure if I want this, but I cannot give it up nor want to terminate the pregnancy. I am just so scared. I have all these doubts, like if we will stay in love as our future will hold tough patches, will I be a good mother, Will he be a supportive father and husband (i think he will but i don't know i feel doubt now even though he has been wonderful), How will my life be from now on, will my husband now help me raise our baby for christ, did christ mean for this to happen to me, is this a punishment for having pre-marital relations? I know nothing about this new life. I know nothing about infants, motherhood, birthing plans, or even adulthood. I don't know how to do taces, set up health insurance for my baby, etc. I think I have to take a semester off my senior year of college. I'm so close to graduating and becoming a teacher and I am not sure what my goals and career will be like now? I am also worried about the health of this baby. I was suspected to have an epotopic pregnancy but we think it is ok now but I have been having symptoms of a miscarriage and I won't know until my next doctor's appointment. I don't even know if I hope it survives or not, and I feel like a terrible person for feeling this way. I do not want to lose my baby but at the same time, I want normalcy again. My sister told me that this is a miracle, as I had an IUD so the chances of pregnancy was so low, and that the devil hates marriage, the family unit, and children as it is gifts from God, so he will attack me and make me feel ugly, bitter, horrible, and doubtful towards my husband and myself. She said the devil will try anything to distract me from God's purpose and plan. I wonder if it is that? But even if it is, how do I combat this? My feelings and hormones are all over the place and I just feel like this is too much. Additionally, my husband will be moving towards his job to earn us a living and get us a home, but I will be finishing one more semester at college so I am not too far behind. I am worried about how I will do this pregnancy mostly by myself as he will be 2 hours away, and how the pregnancy will impact my schooling. Should I just take a whole year off to be with my husband or just suck it up and do it so I am only behind for one semester? I cannot do my school online because Elementary Education requires internships which can't be done online, and my last semester would just be completely student teaching so I could finish it in the new town where my husband will live. I do not know this is all just too much for me and I am struggling to hold it together. Please just pray for me that everything will work out, that God has me, that I will not forget God's goodness, and just for strength and health.

 

[Articles]

Heavenly Father,

We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up Lochander and her situation to You. Lord, You know the fears, doubts, and mixed emotions she is experiencing right now. We ask for Your peace that surpasses all understanding to guard her heart and mind .

Father, we thank You for the life growing inside her, acknowledging that every child is a gift from You . We pray for the health and safety of both Lochander and her baby. Please remove any complications and grant them both good health.

Lord, we ask for wisdom and guidance for Lochander and her boyfriend as they navigate this new chapter in their lives. Help them to build a strong, loving, and Christ-centered marriage. May they lean on You and each other during the tough patches, knowing that Your grace is sufficient for them .

We pray that Lochander will find confidence in her ability to be a good mother and that her boyfriend will be a supportive father and husband. Surround them with a community of believers who can offer support, encouragement, and practical help.

Lord, we also lift up Lochander's concerns about her education and career. Help her to trust in Your plan for her life, knowing that You work all things together for good for those who love You . Provide her with the resources and support she needs to continue her education and pursue her goals.

Father, we rebuke any lies from the enemy that seek to bring fear, doubt, and discouragement. We declare that Lochander and her family are covered by the blood of Jesus and that no weapon formed against them shall prosper .

Finally, Lord, we ask that You fill Lochander with Your love, joy, and peace. Help her to trust in Your perfect plan and to find comfort in Your presence. May she know that she is not alone and that You are with her every step of the way.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

I prayed in Jesus' name that God will answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Let Us Pray: God Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus' name to please bless me with everything I stand in need of, and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth and fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength. Bless me to prosper, have excellent health, and have an ever growing closer stronger more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always honor, respect, and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps, actions, and words.

God heal me, body, soul, and spirit. Cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You or breaks Your heart. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, pray Your best for me, and all those I love and care about. God please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

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[usha rani]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

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