Husbands still finding issues with our marriage! Need prayer.

[Finesse37]

Idk where to start. Will be ### years soon. We have survived so much. Cheating, his love child from his past assistant and now his love for his new married assistant with young children. I am so tired. I keep praying for direction but perhaps I am missing something. Today after a beautiful vacation he said intimacy was missing and the only glue we really have is our children and grandchildren. He said I don’t speak his language and he doesn’t like bringing up his culture with me because I will never fully understand him. His assistant is his culture and they talk for hours on the phone. I need to be rescued from so much emotional and mental torture. Just when I thought we were turning a corner he throws something else at me. Why stay with me if he is so unhappy? Almost ### years in total together. I am ###, educated, make solid money and we raised several children. He is always unhappy about something. Never can love him 100 percent as he is never happy even after all kinds of trips and adventures. Prayers needed for mental and emotional strength. And now he keeps torturing me about how there is no Jesus and all my praying is a joke. Am I dumb?

 

[Articles]

We are truly saddened to hear about the struggles you are facing in your marriage, and we are here to pray with you and provide biblical guidance. Firstly, let's bring your situation before the Lord in prayer.

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You today, lifting up our sister who is in need of Your divine intervention in her marriage. Lord, You know the pain and suffering she is experiencing, the emotional and mental torture she is enduring. We pray for Your comfort and strength to surround her, and for Your wisdom to guide her.

Lord, we pray for her husband, that You would soften his heart and turn it towards You. We pray that You would convict him of his sin and draw him to repentance. We pray that You would heal their marriage and restore the joy and intimacy that has been lost.

Lord, we also pray that You would reveal Yourself to her husband. We pray that he would come to know You as his Lord and Savior. We pray that You would use this difficult situation to draw him to Yourself.

Father, we ask all of this in the precious name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. It is in His name we pray, Amen.

Now, let's address some of the issues you've raised. Firstly, it's important to understand that God's design for marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman. It's clear that your husband has broken his marriage vows and this is not acceptable in God's eyes. In Matthew 19:4 WEB, Jesus said, "Have you not read that he who made them from the beginning made them male and female, and said, ‘For this cause a man shall leave his father and mother, and shall be joined to his wife; and the two shall become one flesh?’"

Your husband's behavior, including his emotional affair with his assistant and his disrespect for your prayers, is not aligning with biblical principles. In 1 Corinthians 13:4-7 WEB, love is described as patient, kind, not envious, not boastful, not arrogant, not rude, not seeking its own way, not irritable, not keeping a record of wrongs, not rejoicing in unrighteousness, but rejoicing in the truth, bearing all things, believing all things, hoping all things, enduring all things. This is the kind of love God expects in a marriage.

It's also important to address your husband's denial of Jesus Christ. The Bible is clear that there is no other name by which we can be saved. In Acts 4:12 WEB, it is written, "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!" We encourage you to continue praying for his salvation and to share the gospel with him.

Lastly, we want to encourage you to stay strong in your faith and to continue praying for your marriage. Remember, we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the cosmic powers over this present darkness, against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly places. Ephesians 6:12 WEB.

We are here for you, sister. Keep trusting in the Lord and keep fighting for your marriage. We will continue to pray for you and your husband.

 

[Glogaria]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[hostadmin]

We've been thinking about you and your husband, and we want you to know that we're here for you. We've been praying for you both, asking God to strengthen you, to soften your husband's heart, and to heal your marriage. We believe in the power of prayer, and we trust that God is at work, even in the midst of your struggles.

We want to encourage you to keep communicating openly and honestly with your husband. It's important to express your feelings and needs, and to listen to his as well. Remember, you're not just fighting for your marriage, but also for your husband's heart and soul. Keep praying for him, and keep showing him the love and grace of Jesus.

We also want to remind you of God's faithfulness. He has brought you through so much already, and He promises to never leave or forsake you. Trust in Him, and keep seeking His face. He will guide you and give you the strength you need to face each day.

Keep holding on, sister. We're praying for you, and we're here to support you in any way we can. You're not alone in this fight. Together, with God on our side, we can overcome anything.

 

[Anonymous]

Idk where to start. Will be ### years soon. We have survived so much. Cheating, his love child from his past assistant and now his love for his new married assistant with young children. I am so tired. I keep praying for direction but perhaps I am missing something. Today after a beautiful vacation he said intimacy was missing and the only glue we really have is our children and grandchildren. He said I don’t speak his language and he doesn’t like bringing up his culture with me because I will never fully understand him. His assistant is his culture and they talk for hours on the phone. I need to be rescued from so much emotional and mental torture. Just when I thought we were turning a corner he throws something else at me. Why stay with me if he is so unhappy? Almost ### years in total together. I am ###, educated, make solid money and we raised several children. He is always unhappy about something. Never can love him 100 percent as he is never happy even after all kinds of trips and adventures. Prayers needed for mental and emotional strength. And now he keeps torturing me about how there is no Jesus and all my praying is a joke. Am I dumb?

Praying that your faith will grow and you will taste the goodness of God in the land of the living. Praying for restoration of your relationship and renewed love. Send you a short prayer for closing all hidden doors used by the evil one to enter your live. This prayer will bless you.

 

[usha rani]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

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[hostadmin]

We continue to lift you and your marriage up in prayer, dear sister. Thank you for giving us the privilege to intercede on your behalf. We are truly grateful that you have allowed us to stand in agreement with you in prayer.

If God has already shown His power and answered your prayers, we would be blessed to hear your praise report. Your testimony could greatly encourage others who are going through similar trials. If your situation still seems unchanged or even more challenging, it is our hope that you will share with us again. We want to continue praying for the Lord's intervention in your marriage. Remember our prayers are with you for mental and emotional strength.

As fellow believers we are confident God is able to turn around the most difficult situations. Let us keep trusting in His perfect will even when things seem dim.

Our sincere prayer is that your husband's heart will turn towards you and that God's peace would fill your home.

And as you stand strong in the Lord may these prayers be answered in Jesus Name.