Husband's sexual addictions just coming to light

[Kareatorland]

Been married 25 years and due to someone blackmailing my husband I'm finding out more and more everyday. Porn addictions . Cheating . Hookup apps that he has lied about his own age trying to get 18 yr Olds. He is so angry that I have found out , I think it's been going on most of marriage looking back . I am stuck . No income . No way out right now . I've been stay at home mom and have no credit no high school diploma . His anger is terrifying and he is blaming me for everything . I'm broken in everyway. Doubting myself thinking maybe it is partially my fault . Need Jesus to intervene in our home in a huge way. I can't live like this .

 

[Articles]

We are truly heartbroken to hear about the situation you're facing in your marriage, ###. Firstly, let us to address infidelity and sexual immorality are condemned in Scripture. In Hebrews 13:4 WEB, it is written, "Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled: but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers." Your husband's actions are not only harmful to you and your marriage but also grievous in God's sight.

It is crucial to understand that you are not to blame for your husband's choices. Each person is responsible for their own actions. In Ezekiel 18:20 WEB, "The soul who sins, he shall die: the son shall not bear the iniquity of the father, neither shall the father bear the iniquity of the son; the righteousness of the righteous shall be on him, and the wickedness of the wicked shall be on him."

We must also address the fear and anger you're experiencing. In Ephesians 5:25-28 WEB, "Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it... So ought men to love their wives as their own bodies. He who loves his wife loves himself." Your husband's anger and blaming are not the actions of a man living in love and submission to Christ.

Let's pray together for your situation:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up our sister ###. Lord, You see her pain, fear, and confusion. We pray for Your divine intervention in her marriage, that You would convict her husband of his sins and bring him to true repentance. Lord, protect ### physically, emotionally, and spiritually. Guide her with Your wisdom and surround her with Your peace.

Father God, You are good and faithful. We pray that every scheme of the enemy in this marriage be exposed and brought to light. We pray for healing and restoration, if it aligns with Your perfect will. We pray for ### to have strength and grace to get away from abuse in any form. We also pray for her provision and guidance in practical matters.

Lord Jesus, we know that You are the only way, the truth, and the life. We pray that ### will continually draw near to You and experience your amazing love at this time. We also pray for her husband's salvation if he has not truly believed in Jesus Christ and is not walking in the newness of life.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

###, we encourage you to reach out to local Christian resources for practical help and support. This could be a trusted pastor, Christian counselor, or support. It is also crucial to involve law enforcement if you feel threatened. Trust in the Lord, and lean on His understanding. Psalm 55:22 WEB says, "Cast your burden on Yahweh, and he will sustain you. He will never allow the righteous to be moved."

Lastly, remember that God loves you deeply and has a plan for your life. He is with you in this storm, and He will see you through.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here for you, sister. Our hearts ache for the pain you're enduring, but we know who holds your future. Let's cling to Him together.

We've been praying for you, asking the Lord to expose the darkness in your marriage and bring it into the light. We're asking Him to convict your husband's heart, to soften it and turn it back to the love and commitment He's called you both to. We're interceding for your safety, your peace, and your provision. We're also praying for your husband's salvation, if he hasn't yet surrendered his life to Jesus.

Remember, you're not alone. God sees you, He hears you, and He's fighting for you. Trust in Him, lean on Him. He's your refuge and strength, your very present help in times of trouble (Psalm 46:1).

We're here to listen, to pray, and to support you in any way we can. Please, reach out if you need someone to talk to or if there's anything practical we can do to help. You're not alone in this, and together, we'll weather this storm. Keep your eyes on Jesus, the author and finisher of your faith (Hebrews 12:2).

 

[Saraha]

Praying for you. Heavenly Father hear our prayers. In Jesus Name I Pray Amen

 

[Kareatorland]

Thank you so much I didn't expect an immediate response . I really need God's guidance right now I have no idea where to turn or what to do . It's like I'm living in a fog right now .

 

[Ashairdaraire]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Windwold]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

New Year's Prayer 2025

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[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[hostadmin]

We continue to feel honored that you have shared your heartbreaking situation with us and allowed us to pray with you. We are standing in the gap with you, sister, as you face this daunting challenge in your marriage. Please know that you are not alone; we are here to support and uplift you in prayer.

If you have seen signs of restoration and repentance in your husband, we would be overjoyed to hear about it. Please share a praise report with us, so we can all rejoice together in God's faithfulness. If the situation remains unchanged or has worsened, we urge you to share an update, so we can continue to surround you with prayers and love.

We pray fervently for God to intervene in your marriage, to bring conviction, repentance, and complete restoration. May He give you strength, wisdom, and peace as you navigate this storm. We also pray for protection, provision, and guidance for you and your family.

We declare that no temptation has overtaken your husband except what is common to mankind. And God is faithful; He will not let him be tempted beyond what he can bear. But when he is tempted. He will also provide a way out so that he can endure it.

In Jesus Name AMEN

In the meantime, we encourage you to seek support from local trusted Christians, wise counselors, or pastors who can provide practical help and godly advice. Remember that God is faithful, and He will not leave nor forsake you. Draw near to Him, and He will draw near to you.

We look forward to hearing from you soon.