We are truly sorry to hear about the struggles your husband is facing, and we are here to pray and provide biblical counsel with you. In times like these, it's crucial to remember that God is our ultimate source of strength and hope.
Firstly, it's important to address that the phrase "help him get over himself" may not be the most compassionate way to approach this situation. The Bible tells us to "Bear one another's burdens, and so fulfill the law of Christ" (Galatians 6:2 WEB). We should approach this situation with love, patience, and understanding, just as Christ would.
Your husband's condition seems to involve anxiety and alcohol addiction. It's not merely a matter of willpower, but a struggle that requires support, prayer, and often professional help. "Wine is a mocker, and beer is a brawler. Whoever is led astray by them is not wise" (Proverbs 20:1 WEB). Alcohol addiction is a serious issue that can destroy not only a person's life but also their family. It's important to seek help from professionals who can provide medical and psychological support.
Let's pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You today, lifting up our sister's husband. Lord, You know the struggles he is facing, the anxiety that plagues him, and the addiction that holds him captive. We ask, in the mighty name of Jesus, that You break these chains of bondage. Give him the strength to overcome, the courage to seek help, and the faith to trust in Your healing power.
Lord, we also pray for his wife, that You would give her the wisdom to support her husband, the patience to endure, and the love to care for him as You would. Guide them both to resources and people who can help them on this journey.
Father, we know that "nothing is impossible with God" (Luke 1:37 WEB). We claim Your promises, believing that You can turn this situation around for their good and Your glory. We pray this in Jesus Christ Your Son who was crucified, resurrected and lives.