Husband

[Koinon]

My marriage is failing because of my husband's substance use and infidelity. How do I make it through this for my babies.

 

[Articles]

Koinon, it's clear that you're facing a challenging and heartbreaking situation. We want you to know that you're not alone, and God is still in control even in this difficult time.

Firstly, let's address the root issues of substance use and infidelity. These are both sinful behaviors that God's word speaks clearly about. The Bible tells us to be sober-minded and watchful (1 Peter 5:8), and that we should flee from sexual immorality (1 Corinthians 6:18). Your husband's actions are not only harmful to you and your family, but they are also against God's will.

It's commendable that you're thinking about your children's wellbeing. God has a special place in His heart for the innocent and vulnerable. Remember the words of Jesus, But Jesus said, "Allow the little children, and don't forbid them to come to me; for the Kingdom of Heaven belongs to ones like these. (Matthew 19:14.)"

However, it's crucial to understand that God does not expect you to endure abuse or tolerate sinful behavior indefinitely. He allows us to set boundaries to protect ourselves and our children. The Bible says, Be sober and self-controlled. Be watchful. Your adversary the devil, walks around like a roaring lion, seeking whom he may devour.(1 Peter 5:8). This verse reminds us to be vigilant and protect our households from harm.

Here's how we can pray for you:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You today, lifting up our sister Koinon. Lord, she is facing a tremendous challenge in her marriage, and she needs Your divine intervention.

Father, we pray for her husband, that You would deliver him from substance use and infidelity. Convict his heart, Lord, and bring him to true repentance. Help him to see the pain he's causing his family and give him the strength to turn away from his sin. Help him to learn and follow biblical principles.

Lord, we pray for Koinon. Give her the strength and wisdom to make decisions that protect her and her children. Comfort her in her sorrow and give her peace that surpasses all understanding.

Guide her, Lord, as she navigates this difficult season. If it is Your will, restore her marriage, but if not teach her to be content in her circumstances including being single again. Help her to seek Your will above all else and to trust in You completely.

In the name of Jesus Christ we pray. Amen.

Lastly, Koinon, we encourage you to seek godly counsel. This could be from a pastor, a biblical counselor, or a trusted Christian mentor. They can provide you with practical steps and guidance during this time.

Remember, God loves you and your children dearly. He will not leave you nor forsake you. Trust in Him, and He will see you through this storm.

And if your husband has claimed to be a Christian and is not acting like it we are reminded of this verse. So if you think you are standing, watch out that you don't fall. There has no temptation taken you but such as is common to man. God is faithful, he will not allow you to be tempted beyond what you are able, but will with the temptation also make the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it. (1 Corinthians 10:12)

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, sister, as you navigate this heart-wrenching situation. It's like a storm that's been raging for too long, and it's understandable that you're feeling overwhelmed. But remember, even in the darkest nights, God is still on His throne, and He sees you.

We've been praying for your husband, that God would touch his heart and bring him to repentance. We ask that God would give him the strength to overcome his addictions and infidelity, and to be the husband and father you both need him to be. We pray that he would find his way back to the path of righteousness, as described in Proverbs 6:22-23, "The Lord detests the way of the wicked, but he loves those who pursue righteousness."

For you, dear sister, we lift you up and ask for God's comfort and strength. We pray that you would find peace in the midst of this storm, as promised in Philippians 4:7, "And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your minds in Christ Jesus." We ask that God would give you wisdom to make decisions that protect you and your children, and that He would guide your steps as you walk through this valley.

We also pray for your babies, that God would wrap His loving arms around them and protect them from harm. We ask that they would grow up knowing the love of their mother and the love of their Heavenly Father.

Please know that you are not alone. We are here for you, and so is God. Trust in Him, and He will help you through this. Keep your eyes fixed on Jesus, the author and perfecter of your faith (Hebrews 12:2). And remember, even in the darkest night, the stars still shine. You are a star in God's eyes, and He will never abandon you.

 

[Pelbun]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[usha rani]

Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We feel truly honored that you have shared your heart with us. We continue to lift you and your marriage up in prayer, asking God for healing, strength and restoration over this situation.. We are trusting God for divine intervention in your husband's struggles with substance use and infidelity. We are also praying for God to give you supernatural peace, wisdom, and provision as you navigate this challenging time for your family, especially as you seek to protect and care for your children.

If you have seen signs of improvement or breakthroughs, we would be encouraged to hear about them so that we can celebrate with you. If the situation still feels bleak, please don't hesitate to share with us again. We want you to know that you are not alone. God loves you so much at He gave His only son for you. Praying in Jesus Name,

We are here for you, and we believe that God is working things out for you and your family's good.