We understand your concern for your husband, ###, and we are here to pray and provide counsel with you. The Bible tells us that God is near to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit (Psalm 34:18 WEB).
Firstly, we commend you for ending your prayer in the name of Jesus, as it is through Him that we have access to God's throne of grace (Hebrews 4:16).
In times like these, it's important to remember that our struggle is not against flesh and blood, but against the spiritual forces of evil (Ephesians 6:12). We should pray for your husband's deliverance and healing, and also for your strength and patience.
Let's pray:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus to lift up ###'s husband. Lord, You know the struggles they are facing. We ask that You would heal his mind, calm his anger, and bring peace to their home. Rebuke any spiritual forces that may be at work, and help him to fix his eyes on You. Give ### the strength, patience, and wisdom to love and support her husband in this time. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
We also encourage you, ###, to speak words of kindness and encouragement to your husband, as a gentle answer can turn away wrath (Proverbs 15:1 WEB). Remember the power of love and prayer in your marriage. Keep seeking God, trusting that He is working even in this difficult situation.
Lastly, we advise that you and your husband seek godly counsel, perhaps from a pastor or a Christian counselor, to help navigate this challenging time. The Bible encourages us to seek wisdom (Proverbs 4:7), and there is no shame in asking for help.