Husband left right after marriage. Please, God, save ### and our marriage.

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Cheostian

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My husband left a few weeks after we got married. (He’s been gone a couple months now) I think due to it being more effort than expected and he didn’t have accountability or boundaries regarding others before, so it was very uncomfortable starting out after I found things he didn’t want me to know about, then he didn’t want to work on it, just to sweep issues under the rug. Now his family is encouraging and pushing him to end the marriage saying I lied about the things he did. Which isn’t helping him or us of course, it’s just enabling lack of accountability or responsibility and ruining our marriage and his struggling walk with God. They all blocked me and he got a new number. I didn’t expect any of this from him or his family. I’ve known them my whole life and grew up with them at church. I really am having to give full control to God in this situation. I don’t know for certain what is happening or why. I don’t know where he is or how to contact him. I pray that God saves my husband, our marriage, sanctifies and has mercy on us, that he is brought home soon. That God turn this situation completely around, open everyone’s eyes and hearts, make them contrite, rebuke them, they seek God’s way, and He allow us to share the blessing of marriage together. I need peace, patience, courage, trust, faith, and wisdom while I wait. My husband needs God’s help terribly. Thank You for Your sovereignty, grace, redemption, and love. In Jesus’ name, amen.
 
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We are truly saddened to hear about the struggles you are facing in your marriage. We will stand with you in prayer and offer guidance based on biblical principles.

Firstly, we commend you for your faith and trust in God during this challenging time. It is only through the name of Jesus Christ that we have access to God, and it is only through Him that we can be saved and have a relationship with God. The World English Bible (WEB) tells us, For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus (1 Timothy 2:5) and Behold, I give you the authority to trample on serpents and scorpions, and over all the power of the enemy, and nothing will in any way harm you. Nevertheless, do not rejoice in this, that the spirits are subject to you, but rejoice that your names are written in heaven (Luke 10:19-20).

Regarding your husband, we pray that God will work in his heart and draw him back to you and to their marriage. We pray that God will open his eyes and convict him of his actions, turning his heart towards repentance and reconciliation. As it is written, "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness" (1 John 1:9).

We also pray for his family, that God will soften their hearts and help them to see the truth. It is not godly to encourage division or enable sin, so we pray that God will rebuke them and guide them towards repentance and reconciliation as well. As the WEB says, If anyone comes to me, and doesn't hate his own father, mother, wife, children, brothers, and sisters, yes, and his own life also, he can't be my disciple (Luke 14:26).

As for you, we encourage you to continue trusting in God and seeking His will for your life. We pray that God will grant you peace, patience, courage, trust, faith, and wisdom as you wait on Him. Remember the words of the WEB, But they who wait for Yahweh shall renew their strength. They shall mount up with wings like eagles. They shall run, and not be weary. They shall walk, and not faint (Isaiah 40:31).

We also encourage you to seek godly counsel and support from your local church or Christian community. They can provide you with practical help and guidance during this time.

Finally, we pray that God will turn this situation around and use it for His glory. We pray that He will sanctify and have mercy on you and your husband, and that He will allow you to share the blessing of marriage together. As it is written, "And we know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose" (Romans 8:28).

Let us pray together:

Heavenly Father, we come before You today in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our sister in Christ and her husband. Lord, we pray for Your intervention in their marriage, that You would soften their hearts and draw them back together. We pray for conviction, repentance, and reconciliation, and we ask that You would rebuke those who seek to divide them. Lord, we also pray for our sister, that You would grant her peace, patience, courage, trust, faith, and wisdom as she waits on You. Help her to continue trusting in You and seeking Your will for her life. And finally, Lord, we pray that You would turn this situation around and use it for Your glory. We ask all of these things in the powerful name of Jesus Christ, our Lord and Savior. Amen.

Please feel free to reach out to us again if you need further support or prayer. We are here to help.
 
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We're here with you, holding your hand through this storm. It's heartbreaking to see the one you love walk away, especially when you've given your all to the marriage. But remember, God is still on the throne, and He's got a plan in this. We're praying for your husband, that God would give him a revelation of his sin and a desire to return to you both. We're also praying for his family, that they would stop enabling his behavior and start encouraging him to do what's right.

We're standing with you, ###, in faith. We know it's hard to wait, but God is faithful. He's given you peace, patience, courage, trust, and faith this far, and He'll continue to strengthen you. Keep trusting Him, keep seeking Him, and remember, He who began a good work in you will carry it on to completion (Philippians 1:6).

We're also praying for wisdom for you. Maybe it's time to set some boundaries, to protect your heart and your marriage. It's not about being unloving, but about loving yourself and your marriage enough to say, "No more sweeping issues under the rug."

And finally, we're praying for a miracle. We're believing God for a turnaround, for your husband to come home, and for your marriage to be sanctified and blessed. We're claiming Romans 8:28 over your situation - that God will work all things together for your good.

Keep fighting the good fight, ###. We're right there with you.
 
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Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so.
Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 
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