Husband leaving me

Kerenim · Sep 8, 2024

Dear Father, brothers, and sisters, after 11 years of being together my husband will be leaving at the end of the month. I have bone diseases that have left me with surgeries and he is my care giver. However, I am the one who works outside the house has a teacher. I’ve been using a wheelchair at work and not using the bathroom all day until he picks me up. Once home he needs to help me with the bathroom, etc. meanwhile he has been talking to people on Facebook who have convinced him that I treat him poorly. I have had moments in the two last years of being in pain, however, he does barely anything at home but take care of the dogs. Please pray for the both of us. He’s been my rock. He to has some health issues, but not like mine. I want to do counseling, but he won’t. He says I’m a narcissist, but I barely fit any of the characteristics. If anything, he fits more than I do. Please Father and friends, pray for me. Amen

Articles · Sep 8, 2024

We are truly saddened to hear about the trials you're facing in your marriage, Kerenim. We will pray with you and provide counsel based on the Word of God.

Firstly, let's remember what God says about marriage: "Therefore what God has joined together, let no one separate" (Matthew 19:6 WEB). Marriage is a sacred commitment, and it's important to fight for it.

However, we must also address the issues you've raised. It seems there may be a lack of communication and understanding between you and your husband. The Bible tells us, "Let every man be quick to listen, slow to speak, and slow to anger" (James 1:19 WEB). It's crucial to have open, honest, and calm conversations about each other's feelings and needs.

Regarding his interactions on Facebook, the Bible warns against bad company: "Don’t be deceived: 'Evil companionships corrupt good morals'" (1 Corinthians 15:33 WEB). It's possible that these people are influencing him negatively.

We also want to address the accusation of narcissism. The Bible encourages selflessness: "Let nothing be done through strife or conceit, but in lowliness of mind, each esteem the other better than themselves" (Philippians 2:3 WEB). It's important to examine ourselves honestly before God, but also to remember that only He truly knows our hearts.

Now, let's pray:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You today to lift up Kerenim and her husband. Lord, You know the struggles they're facing, the pain they're feeling, and the confusion that's clouding their minds. We ask that You bring clarity, understanding, and healing to their marriage.

Lord, please soften their hearts towards each other. Help them to communicate openly and honestly, to listen actively, and to love unconditionally, just as You love us. Guide them towards godly counsel, and give them the wisdom to discern Your will for their lives.

We also pray for their health, Lord. Please be with Kerenim in her daily struggles and provide for her needs. Be with her husband as well, and help him to see the truth in this situation.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Lastly, Kerenim, remember that God is faithful. He promises, "I will never leave you, nor forsake you" (Hebrews 13:5 WEB). Trust in Him, and He will see you through this difficult time. Keep praying and seeking His face, and encourage your husband to do the same. It's only through Jesus Christ that true healing and restoration can come.

hostadmin · Sep 8, 2024

We're here for you, Kerenim, and we're lifting your marriage up in prayer today. It's heartbreaking to hear about the struggles you're facing, but we're reminded of God's faithfulness even in the toughest times. We want to encourage you with these words from the Bible, "Cast your cares on the Lord and he will sustain you; he will never let the righteous be shaken" (Psalm 55:22, NIV).

We understand that your husband's leaving is a significant blow, especially given your health situation. It's natural to feel hurt and confused, but remember, God is with you every step of the way. Let's pray together:

"Dear Lord, we come to You today, trusting in Your unfailing love. We lift up Kerenim and her husband to You. Lord, You see the pain they're both going through, the misunderstandings, and the fear. We ask that You would intervene, bringing clarity, understanding, and healing to their marriage.

Lord, we pray for a softening of their hearts towards each other. Help them to communicate openly and honestly, to listen actively, and to love unconditionally, just as You love us. Give them wisdom to discern Your will for their lives, and guide them towards godly counsel.

We also pray for their health, Lord. Be with Kerenim in her daily struggles, providing for her needs. Be with her husband as well, helping him to see the truth in this situation.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Saraha · Sep 8, 2024

Praying for you. Heavenly Father hear our prayers. In Jesus Name I Pray Amen

EnricoLange · Sep 8, 2024

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

Felic · Sep 8, 2024

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

The Encourager · Sep 8, 2024

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Let Us Pray: God Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus' name to please bless me with everything I stand in need of, and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, strength, and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to prosper, have excellent health, and have an ever growing closer stronger more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always honor, respect, and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, lean not to my own understanding, acknowledge You in all my ways, and allow You to direct my footsteps, actions, and words.

God heal me, body, soul, and spirit. Cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, pray Your best for me, and all those I love and care about. God please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

hostadmin · Sep 14, 2024

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.