Husband Issues

[Finesse37]

My husband had a son with a woman he worked with years ago. A very bad time for me but now that his son is in college he likes to act as if his son's welfare is greater than mine's. He is 21, in college but my husband likes to make little comments to me about him and if I don't answer the way he thinks I should then I am not worthy of love and affection. I don't get it. I forgave him and everytime I try to move forward he jabs me with something else. I am so tired of this nonsense. I don't even mention the man's name because he is very defensive thus we don't have a relationship. Our other children are fine and I thought we were good but something is missing. He is not affectionate but we are together. We laugh, travel, etc. but there is something about this son that I don't get. I never stopped him from paying support or spending time with him but because we cannot talk about him I don't get involved. Now that he is a grown man it has not improved. Our other children don't talk to him because he does not reciprocate. I feel so unloved and dumb that I stayed. I need strength to get through this relationship. I feel like I am being punished or something but it is only when his son comes into the picture. What is this about? Should I have stayed? Why do I feel he likes to jab me with things about this man? I cannot have a relationship because my husband is again so defensive albeit I have never said anything to him or his mother no matter how much pain I was in from the affair. God give me strength. I pray God through his Son and the Holy Spirit give me an answer about my marriage. Everything is so peaceful but the minute he comes back from spending time with his son he hits me with a weird question and nothing I say is right.

 

[Brother James]

Praying with and for you in Jesus.

Do you Believe Jesus died for our sins, is Risen from the dead, is Preparing a place for us and is about to call us to join Him?

Are you watching for Jesus in the Clouds of Glory? Jesus is about to call us to join Him!

We can do everything Jesus did and more! We can speak; sickness leave in Jesus! Be healed by Jesus stripes! I am healed by Jesus stripes! Amen! Thank You Lord Jesus!

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There is nothing that happens for us that is bad. All things work for our good in Jesus! Look at everything as good!

Sing through out your days Thank You Jesus, Praise You Jesus, Glory to You Lord Jesus or anything that is on your heart to sing to Jesus! It doesn't matter how we sound, Angels will join in with us and Jesus will join in with us as well as fight for us, knock down walls for us, open locks for us, save people for us, evil will flee from us, He heals us and He will over flow His Holy Peace in us.

Praying for others on here and reading your Bible will help you tremendously.

I wanted to commit suicide once, I even came up with a plan. Right before I headed out the door I posted a prayer on here and hoping there might be help from God one last time I opened the Bible and only read take no thought for your life. I read that before at least 100 times but never really could understand how. This time I took it to heart, all right God I will end my life by not thinking about it. I take no thought, I take no thought, I take no thought over and over and over again I take no thought was my only thought that day. All of a sudden I noticed something, Jesus showed up, all my pains were gone, no neck ache, no back pain, no leg pain from many many accidents I had over the years and no pain in my heart as my wife had left me. I started singing praises and thanks to Jesus and my life has never been the same. It is our obedience to God from His Holy Instructions that makes a difference to His Power of His Promises in our lives.

Be a doer of Jesus friend, it really makes a difference! Thank You Lord Jesus!

Search the Bible for Jesus' Promises friend, do them and claim them in Jesus! Amen! Thank You Lord Jesus!

Powerful healing promise hidden in Proverbs 3:7-8, I am not wise in my own eyes, I fear You Lord, I depart from evil, especially my own evil thoughts and my flesh is healed and my body is refreshed in Jesus.

Praying for others especially in your situation will help you tremendously in yours friend.

Take no thought for your life dear friend and Jesus will take thought for you. Sing praises and thanks to Jesus and He will overflow His Holy Spirit in you and so much more. He will fight for you and give you the desires of your heart.

Pray this prayer look up the verses and pray it again with your friends and family and let's mount up with wings as eagles and soar. Soar with me.

Let Us Pray: God I ask in Jesus' name, bless me to grow closer to You. I long for a more intimate relationship with You. God I take You at Your Word, if I will draw closer to You, You will draw closer to me (James 4:8). Show me how to draw closer to You. Bless me daily to cast off and forsake my thoughts and ways for my life, and exchange them for Your thoughts and ways for my life. Let me think Your thoughts and dream Your dreams for my life. God bless me to live and walk in Your love, mercy and forgiveness (Isaiah 55:7). I confess, I will take no thought for my life. I will trust You Father God to take thought for me and take care of me (Mathew 6:25-34). I will not be wise in my own eyes, I will fear You Lord and depart from evil and my flesh will be healed and my body will be refreshed (Proverbs 3:7-8) daily. Thank You Jesus for Your Promises! Lord make me the Child of God You need me to be in Christ for all those around me and for the world to see (Psalms 128:3). Not by my might, nor by my power, but by Your Spirt Christ Jesus (Zechariah 4:6) this shall happen. And it will happen, it is happening now in Your timing, Power, Strength, Might, and Spirit, Christ Jesus. God all that I have asked of you in this prayer please do the same for all those I love, care about, and every faithful prayer warrior on this site. Thank You, Thank You, Thank You Lord Jesus, my Savior and Lord for answering this prayer with a Yes and Amen.

Bless us to sing praises and thanks to You Lord Jesus so You can fill us with the wine of the Spirit in Jesus Name, Amen.

 

[Brother James]

My husband had a son with a woman he worked with years ago. A very bad time for me but now that his son is in college he likes to act as if his son's welfare is greater than mine's. He is 21, in college but my husband likes to make little comments to me about him and if I don't answer the way he thinks I should then I am not worthy of love and affection. I don't get it. I forgave him and everytime I try to move forward he jabs me with something else. I am so tired of this nonsense. I don't even mention the man's name because he is very defensive thus we don't have a relationship. Our other children are fine and I thought we were good but something is missing. He is not affectionate but we are together. We laugh, travel, etc. but there is something about this son that I don't get. I never stopped him from paying support or spending time with him but because we cannot talk about him I don't get involved. Now that he is a grown man it has not improved. Our other children don't talk to him because he does not reciprocate. I feel so unloved and dumb that I stayed. I need strength to get through this relationship. I feel like I am being punished or something but it is only when his son comes into the picture. What is this about? Should I have stayed? Why do I feel he likes to jab me with things about this man? I cannot have a relationship because my husband is again so defensive albeit I have never said anything to him or his mother no matter how much pain I was in from the affair. God give me strength. I pray God through his Son and the Holy Spirit give me an answer about my marriage. Everything is so peaceful but the minute he comes back from spending time with his son he hits me with a weird question and nothing I say is right.

I can assure you that Jesus is very real! Hell is very real (Lake of Lava)! Sometimes if we really want something from Jesus then we need to read and study about how to get Him to take care of that. Sometimes we think we have prayed enough but maybe we just haven’t prayed the right way.

Read the book of Hosea in the Bible KJV for promises from God/Jesus for our marriages and our families. This brought my wife back to me more than once...

Pray this for yourself....

In Jesus put a hedge around my marriage, around my husband, turn away other lovers, restore us unto You and restore us unto each other in Jesus! All for Your Glory Lord Jesus! Amen! Thank You Lord Jesus!

We should always love and forgive especially our spouses as if it is ourselves standing before Jesus. This brought my wife back to me a few times in such a way that she actually still thinks I was the one that sabotaged her but I know differently.

 

[Articles]

Heavenly Father, we come to You in the Name of Jesus to ask for Your help and guidance in this difficult situation. We pray that You would give Finesse37 the strength and courage to stand firm in her faith and to remain strong in the face of adversity. We ask that You would give her peace and comfort in her heart and mind, and that You would give her the wisdom to handle this situation in a way that honors You. We ask that You would give her husband the grace to understand the hurt and pain he has caused, and that You would give him the courage to make amends and to show her the love and respect she deserves. We ask that You would restore their relationship and bring healing and reconciliation to their marriage. In Jesus' Name, Amen.

 

[Anonymous]

You really need to have a heart to heart talk with your husband as hard as that might be and let him know that you are unhappy and if he wants this marriage to continue that you both need to see a marriage counselor .

 

[JesusourLordandSavior]

Praying with you and for you for this. Stay prayerful and strong in faith. Remember God loves you both and is always with you. In the name of our Lord and Savior Jesus Christ. Amen~

 

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[Katiec]

My husband had a son with a woman he worked with years ago. A very bad time for me but now that his son is in college he likes to act as if his son's welfare is greater than mine's. He is 21, in college but my husband likes to make little comments to me about him and if I don't answer the way he thinks I should then I am not worthy of love and affection. I don't get it. I forgave him and everytime I try to move forward he jabs me with something else. I am so tired of this nonsense. I don't even mention the man's name because he is very defensive thus we don't have a relationship. Our other children are fine and I thought we were good but something is missing. He is not affectionate but we are together. We laugh, travel, etc. but there is something about this son that I don't get. I never stopped him from paying support or spending time with him but because we cannot talk about him I don't get involved. Now that he is a grown man it has not improved. Our other children don't talk to him because he does not reciprocate. I feel so unloved and dumb that I stayed. I need strength to get through this relationship. I feel like I am being punished or something but it is only when his son comes into the picture. What is this about? Should I have stayed? Why do I feel he likes to jab me with things about this man? I cannot have a relationship because my husband is again so defensive albeit I have never said anything to him or his mother no matter how much pain I was in from the affair. God give me strength. I pray God through his Son and the Holy Spirit give me an answer about my marriage. Everything is so peaceful but the minute he comes back from spending time with his son he hits me with a weird question and nothing I say is right.

I have prayed for you and your husband and his son. May God open his eyes so he can see that he is hurting you and stop it. Also may God open his sons eyes to see he has siblings that would like to know him. Keep praying for your husband. Maybe he still feels guilty and takes it out on you??? If he says anything demeaning to you again, just say you are praying for his soul, and walk away. No arguing. It may open his eyes.
God be with you and give you strength.
Joshua 5:1, There is someone standing beside you that is stronger than the one standing against you.
God is always with you. Just ask Him for strength before you talk to him. Be confident and just keep walking away when he is in that “mood”.
God bless you in Jesus Name amen

 

[RL San]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[usha rani]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.