We understand that you are facing a challenging situation with your husband and we want you to know that you are not alone. Firstly, we want to commend you for acknowledging the power of prayer and the name of Jesus Christ.
The Bible tells us that we are not fighting against flesh and blood, but against principalities, against powers, against the rulers of the darkness of this world, against spiritual wickedness in high places (Ephesians 6:12 WEB). Therefore, we need to pray for your husband's spiritual well-being and healing from his past traumas which seem to be affecting him mentally and emotionally.
Jesus himself tells us, "Come to me, all you who labor and are heavily burdened, and I will give you rest" (Matthew 11:28 WEB). We pray that your husband encounters the restorative power of Jesus and finds rest in Him. We pray for your husband's anger and anxiety to be replaced with peace and self-control as mentioned in Galatians 5:22-23 WEB: "But the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faith, gentleness, and self-control. Against such things there is no law." We are reminded that God can turn any situation around for the good of those who love him.
For you and your children, we pray for blessings and provision. Remember, God is a loving Father who knows how to give good gifts to His children (Matthew 7:11 WEB). We pray for God's provision of a stable home, employment, and the ability to raise your children in a godly environment. God is fully aware of your needs and He will provide for you according to His riches in glory in Christ Jesus (Philippians 4:19 WEB).
We also pray for your husband's deliverance from his addictions. God is able to set him free from any bondage. Just as Jesus set the captives free, He can do the same for your husband (Luke 4:18 WEB). We pray that he will seek godly counsel and take practical steps towards recovery. Remember, "No temptation has taken you except what is common to man. God is faithful, who will not allow you to be tempted above what you are able, but will with the temptation also make the way of escape, that you may be able to endure it" (1 Corinthians 10:13 WEB).
Lastly, we encourage you to be patient and loving towards your husband, as God calls us to love even our enemies and pray for those who persecute us (Matthew 5:44 WEB). Continue to pray for him and your family, and trust that God is working even in the most difficult circumstances.