Husband had a wet dream

[Drairninren]

As it says. We have not had sex due to a baby who demands all my attention. We have also had problems in the past with him hiding things on his phone, lusting or checking out other women in front of me especially while pregnant. Last night he fell asleep hugging me. I moved to get comfortable and he started humping me making and saying sexual things. He woke up out of his dream and kept asking me if I was ok because he obviously knew. I’m hurt, been hurt and keep getting hurt while he tells me if I know I have an amazing husband and how life is beautiful and how God is good, tell my sons, ### and ### to spread love and joy and about the Lord. I am not myself. I’m trapped and I hate myself for failing my kids again. Oh and I have to ask for money even if it’s obvious I need it. He sends me random amounts like ###.

It’s devastating because women are told men are the leaders and the covering for his wife. It doesn’t tell us how to prepare if man fails. I have to restart and struggle with finding a job and everything that comes with making sure the kids are good while he has his freedom.

Thank you for reading.

Also, is there a group here that interprets dreams?

 

[Articles]

We are truly saddened to hear about the struggles you are facing in your marriage. First, let's address the issue of sexual intimacy and the incident you described. It is clear that you are both hurting. This is obvious in his behavior and disgusting comments he made in his sleep. This is a clear sign of his continued lust and lack of respect for you. This is completely understandable given the history of his hiding things on his phone, lusting after other women, and his lack of respect for you especially while pregnant. This is all shameful sin. It needs to be brought out into the open, confronted, and confessed.

1 John 1:9 (WEB) says, If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.

He claims that he is a Christian and speaks about God being good and of love and joy. This is all good and well in public, but what about in private with you? He needs to be walking the talk. He needs to be pure. Anything less is not acceptable. You need to be his only desire.

Matthew 5:8 (WEB) says Blessed are the pure in heart, for they shall see God.

God calls husbands to be loving, caring, and faithful to their wives, as Christ is to the church.

Ephesians 5:25 (WEB) says, Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it.

You both need to have an open and honest conversation about the state of your marriage. If necessary, seek counseling from a trusted pastor or Christian counselor. When discussing this with him, make sure that he is committed to changing for the better. It is also imperative that you both are praying together and individually. It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God.

John 14:6 (WEB) says, Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.

It is good that you want to provide for your children, but it is not your responsibility alone. Your husband needs to be a provider as well and not making you ask for money. This is not showing love. He needs to step up and take on his responsibilities.

Your husband needs to be the leader and covering for his family. He should be taking care of you and the children.

1 Timothy 5:8 (WEB) says, But if anyone doesn't provide for his own, and especially his own household, he has denied the faith, and is worse than an unbeliever.

Let's pray together for your situation, trusting in God's goodness and faithfulness.

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before you today, lifting up this sister in Christ who is hurting and struggling in her marriage. We pray for healing, restoration, and a renewed commitment to each other and to You. Lord, we ask that you expose any hidden sin and grant true repentance and forgiveness.

Lord, we pray for her husband, that you would convict his heart and turn him away from his lustful desires and toward purity and holiness. Help him see his wife through your eyes and treat her with the love, respect, and honor she deserves. We also pray that his actions toward her align with his words of God being good and the need to follow Him.

We ask that you provide for all their needs. Both spiritual and physical. And, we pray that you would guide them as they navigate this difficult time, and that you would draw them closer to each other and to You.

We also pray for wisdom and guidance as she seeks to provide for her children. Help her find a job and give her the strength and endurance she needs to care for her family.

Finally, we pray that you would be glorified in their marriage and in their lives, and that they would be a testament to your unfailing love and faithfulness.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

In regards to dream interpretation, we believe that the Bible is clear that God can use dreams to speak to us. However, we should be cautious in interpreting dreams and always compare it to the Word of God. It is not always easy to determine when a dream is from God or just a normal dream. We recommend praying for discernment.

 

[hostadmin]

I'm so sorry to hear about what you're going through. It's like you're in a storm, and it's hard to see the light. But remember, even the darkest night will pass, and the sun will rise again.

We need to lift you up in prayer, sister. We're here for you, and we want you to know that you're not alone. God sees you, He hears your cries, and He's right there with you in the midst of this storm.

Let's pray together, shall we?

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you today, lifting up our ###. Lord, we ask that you would comfort her, strengthen her, and give her peace in the midst of this storm. Help her to trust in you, even when she can't see the way forward.

Lord, we ask that you would work in her husband's heart. Softening it, turning it towards you, and helping him to see the hurt he's causing. Help him to be the husband and father you've called him to be. Help him to lead his family with love, respect, and honor.

Lord, we ask that you would provide for their needs. Both physical and spiritual. We pray that you would guide them through this difficult time, and that you would draw them closer to each other and to you.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

 

[Straethor]

As it says. We have not had sex due to a baby who demands all my attention. We have also had problems in the past with him hiding things on his phone, lusting or checking out other women in front of me especially while pregnant. Last night he fell asleep hugging me. I moved to get comfortable and he started humping me making and saying sexual things. He woke up out of his dream and kept asking me if I was ok because he obviously knew. I’m hurt, been hurt and keep getting hurt while he tells me if I know I have an amazing husband and how life is beautiful and how God is good, tell my sons, ### and ### to spread love and joy and about the Lord. I am not myself. I’m trapped and I hate myself for failing my kids again. Oh and I have to ask for money even if it’s obvious I need it. He sends me random amounts like ###.

It’s devastating because women are told men are the leaders and the covering for his wife. It doesn’t tell us how to prepare if man fails. I have to restart and struggle with finding a job and everything that comes with making sure the kids are good while he has his freedom.

Thank you for reading.

Also, is there a group here that interprets dreams?

This 1 John 2:16 The spirit is power hungry, manipulative, and is adept at seducing others, yet hates all mankind. They who have this, can often be found near powerful people, but seek their own followers - Jezebels' and Ahabs'. It supports the Prophets of Baal, and seeks to annihilate Gods' Prophets. Eventually, it will destroy those nearby, including those who operates in it. They are strongly religious, but death, rather than life, is its' fruit. Taking the resolve of a King Jehu mixed with the integrity of an Elijah, those people, and their followers, must be rebuked. 1 Kings 16:31; 18:4-19:3; 21:1-25; Kings 9:22, 30-37, Revelations 2:20-23. That doesn’t mean we live in fear. Remember, Satan is a defeated foe. Jesus was granted all power and authority and as his followers, we can ask him to exercise that authority and power on our behalf. But even though Satan’s defeated, that doesn’t mean he’s inactive. We must put on the “armor” (Ephesians 6:13-18) and fight on behalf of the kingdom of God. As Neil Anderson so aptly puts it, it’s not our job to defeat the devil. Jesus has already done that. Nor are we to dispel the darkness. We are called to turn on the light. That’s what prayer for spiritual warfare is all about.
To summarize prayers for spiritual warfare then:

1. Acknowledge God’s sovereignty and kingdom.
2. Position yourself as being in Christ, seated in the heavenlies.
3. Ask God for help, asking for angels if He thinks its necessary.
4. With the authority of Jesus, renounce demonic influences and activities and their effects in your life.
5. Ask the Holy Spirit to seal the progress you’ve made to prevent the return of these particular evil spirits.
6. Thank God for His victory over death and for deliverance from spiritual bondage—those are gifts only God can give.

 

[flora]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[usha rani]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

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[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

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[Astiyrath]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.