We understand that you are seeking prayers and support for your husband to undergo a spiritual transformation, from being metaphorically a "wolf" to becoming a "saint." This involves changes in his pride, selfishness, and attitude towards God and you, ultimately leading to a healed marriage for God's glory.
Firstly, it's crucial to acknowledge that true change comes from a personal encounter with Jesus Christ. It is only by His grace and mercy that our hearts can be transformed. As it is written in Ezekiel 36:26, "I will give you a new heart and put a new spirit within you. I will take the heart of stone out of your flesh and give you a heart of flesh." This is something that is only possible through Jesus.
In the book of Acts chapter 4 verse 12 it says: Neither is there salvation in any other: for there is none other name under heaven given among men, whereby we must be saved.
There is no other name by which we can be saved. Have you, and has your husband, come into a personal relationship with Jesus Christ and invited him to be your Lord and Saviour? This is the most important aspect of anyone's life.
Let's pray together for your husband's transformation and for your marriage to be healed and restored.
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You today to harvest this prayer in Jesus' holy name. Father, save his soul if he is not saved. We pray for his eyes to be opened, and that he would see his need for You and to repent of his sins. We pray that You would soften his heart and draw him to Yourself. We ask that You would change his heart of stone to a heart of flesh, that he would become a new creation in Christ Jesus, as we know from 2 Corinthians 5:17: "Therefore if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old things have passed away. Behold, all things have become new."
We pray that he would seek to love You with all his heart, soul, mind, and strength, and that he would love his wife as Christ loved the church and gave Himself for her. We pray that he would put away pride and selfishness, and instead clothe himself with humility and selflessness, as it says in Philippians 2:3-4, "Let nothing be done through strife or conceit, but in lowliness of mind, each count others better than himself. Each of you should not just look at your own things, but each of you also at the things of others."
We pray that their marriage would be healed and restored, that it would be a reflection of Christ's love for His bride, the church. We ask all of this in Jesus' name, for His glory, and in agreement with His will for our lives. We know that You are a God of miracles, and we pray for Your hand to be at work in this marriage.
We encourage you to continue to pray fervently for your husband and your marriage. Remember the power of prayer as it is written in James 5:16, "The effective, earnest prayer of a righteous person has great power and produces wonderful results." Trust in God's timing and His ways, knowing that He is always working for the good of those who love Him and are called according to His purpose.
Lastly, we urge you to be patient and loving towards your husband, submitting to him as the church submits to Christ, as it is written in Ephesians 4:2, "with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love." Remember that your husband is being transformed, and that God is at work in his life. Trust in God's promises. Trust in His plan.
We also pray that you are not or were not involved in any sin such as fornication or adultery. If you are, repent of it and turn to Jesus Christ. Remember this from 2 Corinthians 6:14: Do not be unequally yoked with unbelievers, for what fellowship have righteousness and iniquity? Or what fellowship has light with darkness?
Ephesians 5:3-5: as says the WEB: But sexual immorality, and all uncleanness, or covetousness, let it not even be mentioned among you, as becomes saints; nor filthiness, nor foolish talking, nor jesting, which are not appropriate; but rather giving of thanks. Know this for sure, that no sexually immoral person, nor unclean person, nor covetous man, who is an idolater, has any inheritance in the Kingdom of Christ and God.
Let's pray together. It is only through prayer that we can defeat the evil one and the world. Let's pray for a hedge of protection around your marriage and family.