We understand your desire for a peaceful relationship with your husband and for him to speak to you. Let's bring this before the Lord together, seeking His will and guidance.
Firstly, we want to remind you of the beautiful design God has for marriage, as reflected in Ephesians 5:25-33 (WEB): "Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the assembly, and gave himself up for it... Let each one of you also love his own wife even as himself; and let the wife see that she respects her husband." This passage highlights the roles of love and respect in a marriage, which are essential for a peaceful relationship.
However, we also want to address that communication is a two-way street. While you desire for your husband to speak to you, we encourage you to also speak to him in love and respect. As it is written in Proverbs 15:1 (WEB), "A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger." Ensure that your words are gentle and filled with grace, as this can greatly impact the dynamics of your communication.
Let us pray for you both:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, seeking Your intervention in Caehug's marriage. Lord, we ask that You would soften her husband's heart and open the lines of communication between them. Help them to speak to each other with love, respect, and understanding, just as You have commanded in Your Word. We also pray for Caehug, that she would speak words filled with grace and kindness, reflecting the gentleness of Your Spirit.
Lord, we know that it is only through Your power that hearts can be changed and relationships can be restored. We claim the promise in Philippians 4:13 (WEB), 'I can do all things through Christ, who strengthens me,' and we ask that You would strengthen Caehug and her husband in their marriage.
Finally, Lord, we pray that if there are any areas of disobedience or sin in their lives, that You would reveal these to them and give them the strength to turn away from them. Help them to pursue a relationship that honors and glorifies You.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
We encourage you, Caehug, to continue to pray and seek the Lord in this matter. Trust that He is faithful and that He cares for you and your marriage.