Husband and I are separated and I want reconciliation

[Anonymous]

My husband of ### years told me on ### he was not happy and was considering divorce. He moved out on the ###. He had to move back in that Friday because his living arrangement’s time was up. Thursday before he said I need to move back in with my parents. I did as he wished and he told me on the ###, he wants a divorce and does not want to reconcile and marriage counseling, etc., will not work. He says he does not feel like himself and dreads coming home to me. He has never voiced these feelings before. He had talked to his grandparents (who are really like his parents) and his work friends. All of which have been divorce, and they all say to leave me and do what’s best for him. He told his grandmother about his feelings before he told me. Since then, we still talk but I am not a priority in his life. I do have him reading Love & Respect with me over the phone. I have dived deeper into the Bible and devotionals and really worked on changing my way in hopes of reconciliation. I am asking for your prayers to help guide my husband to reconciliation! That our marriage is worth fighting for and it can and will get better! And for me to continue getting closer to the Lord!

 

[Articles]

We are truly saddened to hear about the separation you're experiencing in your marriage. We will pray for you and your husband, and we hope that our counsel, rooted in biblical principles, will guide you both towards reconciliation.

Firstly, let's remember what God says about marriage. Matthew 19:6 (WEB) states, "So that they are no more two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate." Marriage is a sacred bond designed by God to be a lifelong commitment.

It's important to note that God hates divorce, as stated in Malachi 2:16 (WEB), "For I hate divorce," says Yahweh, the God of Israel, 'and him who covers his garment with violence!' says Yahweh of Armies. 'Therefore pay attention to your spirit, that you don't be unfaithful.'"

We commend you for diving deeper into the Bible and working on your personal growth. It's crucial to continue praying for your husband, as God can change hearts. 2 Corinthians 5:17 (WEB) says, "Therefore if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation. The old things have passed away. Behold, all things have become new."

However, it's also important to address that your husband has been influenced by those who have gone through divorce. 1 Corinthians 15:33 (WEB) warns, "Don't be deceived! 'Evil companionships corrupt good morals.'" We urge you to pray that God surrounds your husband with godly influences.

We also encourage you to continue reading and discussing "Love & Respect" with your husband. Ephesians 5:33 (WEB) tells us, "Nevertheless, let each one of you also love his own wife even as himself; and let the wife see that she respects her husband."

Let's pray together:

"Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You, lifting up this couple in their time of need. Lord, we ask that You soften [husband's] heart and turn it towards You and his wife. Help him to see the value of their marriage and the importance of fighting for it.

Give [wife] the strength and wisdom to navigate this difficult time. Help her to be a light of Your love and grace in their home. Guide them both as they read and discuss 'Love & Respect,' and help them to apply its principles to their marriage.

Surround them with godly influences, Lord, and protect them from those who would seek to lead them astray.

In Jesus' name, we pray for healing, restoration, and a renewed commitment to their marriage covenant. Amen."

Lastly, we want to remind you that it is only by the name of Jesus Christ, Jesus, or Christ or an abbreviation such as IJN (In Jesus Name), that we get access to God. Jesus saith unto him, I am the way, the truth, and the life: no man cometh unto the Father, but by me. John 14:6 (WEB)

 

[Whialkardance]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here for you, sister. We know this is a tough time, but remember, God is always with you. We'll keep you and your husband in our prayers, asking God to heal and strengthen your marriage. We believe in the power of prayer and the transformative love of Jesus.

We're encouraged to see your commitment to growing in your faith and working on your personal growth. Keep diving deep into the Bible and spending time in devotionals. God will meet you there and equip you with the wisdom and strength you need.

We also want to encourage you to keep communicating openly and honestly with your husband. Share your feelings, fears, and hopes with him. Ephesians 4:15 (WEB) reminds us, "But speaking the truth in love, let us grow in all things into him who is the head, Christ." Let's pray together:

"Dear Lord, we lift up this marriage to You. We ask that You would soften [###'s] heart and draw him closer to You and to his wife. Help him to see the beauty and strength of their union and the importance of fighting for it. Give [###] the courage and wisdom to navigate this trial. Help her to be a beacon of Your love and grace in their home. Guide them both as they read and discuss 'Love & Respect', and help them to apply its principles in their marriage. Surround them with godly influences, Lord, and protect them from those who would seek to tear them apart. In Jesus' name, we pray for healing, restoration, and a renewed commitment to their marriage covenant. Amen."

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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Praying for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

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Praying for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[The Encourager]

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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

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