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[Priethor]

I have been going thru a hard time I get so upset I yell at my husband..and say things I don't mean..we been married ### years.and never went thru this behavior..please pray.thank you

 

[Articles]

We are truly sorry to hear about the struggles you're facing in your marriage. It's commendable that you've reached out for prayer and support. Let's first address the issue of yelling and saying hurtful things, a behavior which the Bible strongly speaks to change.

In Ephesians 4:29 WEB, it says, "Let no corrupt speech proceed out of your mouth, but such as is good for building up as the need may be, that it may give grace to those who hear." Also, in Colossians 3:8 WEB, it says, "But now you also put away all these: anger, wrath, malice, blasphemy, and filthy language out of your mouth." These actions are not godly, but show another spirit is influencing you to do evil, and you must stop it. God hates divorce, but you must remove sin from your life. You should continue with your husband, but if he continues living with you in sin then he can do so without you. It also mentions in 1 Corinthians 6:9-10, "Don’t you know that the unrighteous will not inherit God’s Kingdom? Don’t be deceived. Neither the sexually immoral, nor idolaters, nor adulterers, nor male prostitutes, nor homosexuals, nor thieves, nor covetous, nor drunkards, nor slanderers, nor extortioners, will inherit God’s Kingdom.". WEB.

It's important to remember that your words have power, and they can either build up or tear down. In your marriage, it's crucial to use your words to build up your husband and your relationship. Proverbs 15:1 WEB says, "A gentle answer turns away wrath, but a harsh word stirs up anger." Be humble and contrite, admitting your error in this.

We also encourage you to seek God's help in managing your emotions. Psalm 34:17 WEB says, "When the righteous cry for help, Yahweh hears, and delivers them out of all their troubles." God is always there to help you, but be sure you are right with God first before anything else. Remember that Jesus said 'Whoever divorces his wife, and marries another, commits adultery against her. And if she herself divorces her husband, and marries another, she commits adultery.' Mark 10:11-12 WEB. God is never fine with divorce, but only allows divorce under certain circumstances.

Let's pray together:

Heavenly Father, we come before You today lifting up our sister in need of Your divine intervention. Lord, we pray for her marriage, that You would heal and restore it. Help her to control her emotions and tongue, and guide her in managing them in a way that honors You and her husband.

We also pray, that you would remove any outside influences. Expose any evil influences or spiritual attachments or oppression that may be in either or both of their lives and remove and put them far away from your servant's house.

We also pray against, rebuke, and put to silence, any evil influences, works, oppressions, or attacks in your life in Jesus name.

Help both our sister and her husband forgive and deal kindly with each other. Fill them both with Your love, patience, and understanding as they navigate this challenging time. Make Your will clear to them in Jesus Name we pray.

Please note Priethor, that it is only in Jesus Christ that we have access to God, in Jesus Christ that we have eternal life. It is only by His Name and we must believe in Him that we may have eternal life. It is only through believing in Jesus Christ that we are reconciled with God. There is no other Name.

Finally, it is absolutely forbidden to divorce for frivolous or unbiblical reasons, so keep praying and seeking God's guidance in resolving your marital issues.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, sister. We know how tough it is when words spoken in anger or frustration can cut deep, especially when they come from someone you love. It's like a storm in your home, isn't it? But remember, even the strongest winds can't uproot a tree with deep roots. Your marriage has weathered ### years, that's a testament to its strength.

We've been praying for you, and we want to encourage you with something from Proverbs 14:1, "The wise woman builds her house, but the foolish one tears it down with her own hands." Your words have power, and we believe you can use them to build up, not tear down. It's okay to feel upset, but it's how we express those feelings that matter.

We're also praying for your husband. We ask God to give him patience, understanding, and wisdom. We believe God can soften his heart and help him respond with kindness and love, even in the face of harsh words.

Let's keep praying together:

"Dear Lord, we lift up our sister and her husband to You. We ask for Your healing and restoration in their marriage. Help them to communicate with love and respect, even in difficult times. Give them wisdom to navigate their challenges and the strength to forgive and move forward. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

 

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[Dan T]

Papa, please fill this person with your Spirit of Gentleness...in Jesus' name...amen

 

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[The Encourager]

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