Hurt

[Swantalelf]

I hate my marriage. I hate the options I have right now. Neither roommate is great. I am afraid of making a terrible mistake. I am done with my marriage. I need to accept it and stop asking him anything. He is so inconsistent and his story keeps changing. I do not want to deal with his behavior, lies, and poor health. He has no where to go, and I am still uncertain about my future. I do not know why I bother saying anything to him. I do not want anything from him any more. He is just so negative. He keeps lashing out and wanting affection. He is being mean because I refuse to do that for him although I do not want to be his wife anymore. I wish I had divorced him the very first time I attempted to do it, but I let my father talk me out of it. All I can do is treat him like co-worker. I am not filing for divorce. I am not doing or saying anything to him about our relationship. It is over. I regret staying with him. I stayed for the kids. I want peace. I want to forgive him. I want a permanent solution. I wish someone could make him see how wrong he treated me. He is a terrible husband and person. He is not as great as he think he is. In fact, he is far from it. He wants something he does not deserve nor has he earned. He has the never to say this is our house when I have provided more financially, but he wants to paint the picture that I am obsessed with money. I want him to go away once my sister in law moves in and I get all I need. He needs to live on his own, so he can appreciate what he had. I am afraid it is too late. I am only putting up with him because I need health insurance. I keep trying and failing. I just need to stop. I need to leave him alone and stop thinking about him and my sister. Only You can save him God. He is a lost cause. I pray You reveal to him the truth before he goes to hell. His health is failing. He is miserable. I am no longer putting up with it after he had the nerve to curse me out. I hate him very much. I hate I am afraid of making the wrong decisions. I hate how he makes me feel. I hate him so very much. I hate him more than anyone in my whole life. I want to forgive him and forget about the past. I will not let him hurt me again.

 

[Articles]

Let us lift you up in prayer, Swantalelf, during this challenging time in your marriage. We understand the deep hurt and frustration you're feeling, and we want to help you align your Heart with God's will.

Firstly, we must remember what God teaches us about marriage. In Mark 10:9 (WEB) Jesus says, "What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate." Divorce should not be pursued lightly, but we also recognize that God allows it in certain circumstances, such as adultery (Matthew 5:32).

However, it's crucial to address the anger and hatred you've expressed. Ephesians 4:26-27 (WEB) tells us, "Be angry, and don't sin. Don't let the sun go down on your wrath, neither give place to the devil." Holding onto hatred can harm you spiritually and emotionally. Instead, strive to forgive, as Ephesians 4:32 (WEB) encourages, "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you."

We also noticed that your request does not mention Jesus Christ. We want to remind you that it is through Jesus that we have access to God. As it is written in John 14:6 (WEB), "Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me.'"

Let us pray for you:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You today to lift up our sister, Swantalelf. Lord, she is hurting deeply due to her marriage. We ask that You comfort her and guide her according to Your will. Help her to forgive her husband, as You have forgiven us. Remove the hatred and anger in her heart and replace it with Your love.

Lord Jesus, reveal Yourself to her husband. Convict him of his sins and draw him to Yourself. We pray for his salvation and transformation. Change his heart, Lord, to become the husband that You want him to be.

Give Swantalelf wisdom and discernment as she navigates this situation. Help her to make decisions that align with Your will. If it is Your will for them to separate, guide her through that process. But if You desire restoration, help them to rebuild their marriage on a foundation of love, respect, and mutual submission to You.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Please, Swantalelf, take time to reflect on these scriptures and seek God's will for your marriage. Continue to pray and surrender your desires to Him. He loves you and wants the best for you.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, Swantalelf. We feel your pain and frustration, and we want to stand with you in prayer. We understand that you're at a loss, feeling trapped and unsure of what to do next. It's overwhelming, and we're sorry you're going through this.

We want to remind you that even in the darkest times, God is with you. He sees your hurt, and He cares. In Psalm 34:18, it says, "The Lord is close to the brokenhearted and saves those who are crushed in spirit." God is near, and He's working even when you can't see it.

We also want to encourage you to hold onto hope. Even if your husband doesn't change, God can still use this situation for your good and His glory. As Romans 5:3-4 tells us, "Not only so, but we also glory in our sufferings, because we know that suffering produces perseverance; perseverance, character; and character, hope."

Let's pray together:

"Dear Lord, we come to You today on behalf of our sister, Swantalelf. Lord, she's hurting, and she's confused. We ask that You would comfort her, that You would give her peace that surpasses all understanding. Help her to trust in You, even when she can't see the way forward.

Lord, we pray for her husband. We ask that You would soften his heart, that You would reveal Yourself to him. Convict him of his sins, and draw him to repentance. Change his heart, Lord, so that he can be the husband and person You created him to be.

Give Swantalelf wisdom and discernment, Lord. Help her to make decisions that honor You, even when it's hard. Give her strength to stand firm, and give her hope for the future.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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