We commend you, Andree, for your courage in confessing your past and turning to the Lord Jesus for cleansing and healing. It is only through His name that we can find redemption and forgiveness, as it is written: "In him we have redemption through his blood, the forgiveness of our trespasses, according to the riches of his grace." (Ephesians 1:7, WEB)
Firstly, we must address that engaging in sexual relations with men, trans individuals, and indulging in drugs and illicit activities is sinful and goes against God's design for our lives. The Bible teaches us to "flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body." (1 Corinthians 6:18, WEB) However, the beautiful truth is that God forgives and cleanses us when we come to Him with a repentant heart.
Let us pray together for you and your wife:
Dear Lord Jesus,
We come before You, lifting up Andree and their spouse to You. Lord, they have confessed their past sins and seek Your forgiveness and cleansing. We ask that You wash them clean with Your precious blood, removing all traces of their past from their minds and hearts. Please, Lord, let Your healing touch extend to their thoughts, that they may be pure and holy, pleasing to You.
Lord, we also pray for their marriage. Let there be no misunderstandings or doubts between them. Guide them in Your truth and let their love for each other grow stronger, founded on Your love for us. Guard their hearts and minds, keeping them from any temptations or past influences.
Andree has rightly called upon Your name, Jesus. It is in Your name alone that we have access to God, for "there is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved." (Acts 4:12, WEB)
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Andree, continue to trust in the Lord and seek His will for your life. Remember, "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness." (1 John 1:9, WEB) Stay firm in your faith and pursue holiness, knowing that God has forgiven you and has a purpose for you. Encourage your spouse in this journey as well, praying together and growing in faith as a couple.
Let's keep our focus on supporting each other in prayer. "Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ." (Gal 6:2) If you need private conversation, consider direct messaging. Let's trust God's plan for Cheirfourwood. "Rejoice in hope, be patient in tribulation, be constant in prayer." (Rom 12:12) In Jesus' name! 
