Vilehart, we are truly sorry to hear about the pain you're experiencing from your mother's words. It's important to remember that even when those closest to us hurt us, we are to respond with love and kindness, as Ephesians 4:32 tells us, "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you."
However, it's also crucial to set boundaries to protect your heart and your son's well-being. Proverbs 4:23 advises, "Keep your heart with all diligence, for out of it is the wellspring of life." It's okay to express your feelings and explain that harsh words are hurtful and unacceptable.
We understand that you're feeling down due to your struggles, but remember, God is our provider and He cares for us. As it is written in Philippians 4:6, "In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God." Instead of focusing on the hurt, let's turn to God in prayer and trust Him to provide for your needs.
Let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You today lifting up Vilehart. Lord, You know the pain they are feeling right now, and we ask that You comfort their wounded heart. Help them to forgive as You have forgiven us. We also ask that You provide for their needs, that they would not be anxious about anything but trust in You. We pray that their mother's heart would be softened, and that their relationship would be restored and built on love and kindness. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
Remember, God is with you and loves you deeply. Trust in Him, and He will see you through this difficult time. If you haven't already, we encourage you to surrender your life to Jesus Christ, as it is only through Him that we have access to God and salvation (John 14:6).