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[Anonymous]

I am afraid I have unintentionally did something to my boyfriend that may affect his life forever and when I tell him he will hate me forever. Can someone please pray that I find the courage to tell him what needs to be told and the strength to deal with his behavior towards me afterwards. I do not want it to ruin our relationship but i dont think he would get over it even if he tried. I just need prayers for strength and wisdom.

 

[Articles]

We understand that you're facing a difficult situation with your boyfriend, and we're here to pray with you and offer biblical guidance. First, let's address the issue of your relationship. The Bible encourages us to have relationships that are honouring to God and that should be on the journey to finding a godly spouse rather than just a boyfriend.
Courtship should be an intentional pathway to find a lifelong Christian spouse, with friendship as the beginning steps on that pathway. A Christian man and woman should not enter into a one-on-one relationship on a romantic basis until they have settled the marriage question first with themselves and then the other person. Be intentional to honour God and to follow him in this area first, then proceed into friendship and then courtship to marriage.

Secondly, it's crucial to communicate openly and honestly, as the Bible teaches us in Ephesians 4:15 "But speaking truth in love, we may grow up in all things into him, who is the head, Christ."
It's also important to remember that concealing the truth can often do more harm than good, trying to cover up the situation will cause it to get worse and could bring on much worse long-term consequences. As in Proverbs 10-18 "Whoever hides hatred has lying lips, and whoever utters a slander is a fool."
We can also consider unintentional sin which may also come with consequences. Confessing sins to each other can lead to restoration in the relationship and continued growth. James 5:16 "Therefore, confess your sins to one another and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person has great power as it is working." Remember Jesus is the only one that can heal either of you from your sin as needed. He will forgive that sin and forget it for all eternity.

However, we must also consider the seriousness of your actions and the potential impact on his life. This situation is difficult and being in God's will is of utmost importance, talking to him will require confession. God can be relied upon to provide the best results for both of you if you are faithful and honest.
Fleeing from sexual immorality includes breaking up if called for. It may also include avoiding raising temptation in each other. Everyone is responsible for each sin that they commit. A relationship cannot be a substitute for God. Our husband or wife must never replace God as the focus of our motivation in our life.

If and when discussing the problem with him it is appropriate, try to follow Matthew 18:15 "If your brother sins against you, go and tell him his fault, between you and him alone. If he listens to you, you have gained your brother." Being able to have authentic repentance and change is important to be in God's will and for the Christian testimony that is observable in your lives. Repentance can include avoiding sin, leaving the opportunity for sin, monitoring each other closely, or breaking up if one or both parties refuse to follow God. Running from sin is one of the best ways to stop sin. Being intentional with the sin in your lives and taking individual responsibility is also important. For a Christian, someone who has a personal relationship with Jesus, fornication, adultery, and homosexuality are sin.
If we do not need to confess and speak to a subject that is raising conflict between a man and a woman, that may also be appropriate. Perhaps someone is not ready yet to respond and follow God, however, it is also wise to be sensitive to timing and leading from God. It may be that God can communicate to that other person separately.
We are to love Christ even more than a spouse. Follow God with all that is in each person and to love Christ individually and separately.
Genuine repentance is required to restore your relationship.

Based on this situation it may be wise to approach your friend with the issue but also be ready to break up in case the issue is unresolvable in either heart. A heart that slips into sin also often has the signs of other sins and lack of repentance. A Christian Believer can move too quickly into a relationship and miss the warning signs, therefore you may also want to reflect on how and why you were brought into this type of situation. Reflecting on what and why it happened, as well as to learn how to prevent it in the future is recommended. Getting involved more deeply in the lives of people such as friends and family is usually a recommended protection to stop this type of scenario. Being a self protected, secret barricaded, and an independent island of a Christian Believer or a couple is not biblical. Every Christian should have elements that are consistently being challenged in a loving way by others. A loving Christian community can identify problems in your life that you may not personally be aware of. It may be that your ability to judge a problem in your own life exists and this is being compounded by the situation.

The circumstances surrounding the situation with your boyfriend will require conviction, personal responsibility, potential confession, and action by the two of you to align with God's will. For you and your boyfriend, both of your hearts must reflect the theological aspect of the Christian walk to experience the freedom and lack of the bondage that sin can cause.
Finally, let's pray together in Jesus name:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before you today to lift up our anonymous sister in Christ who is struggling with a difficult situation in her courtship journey. We pray that you will grant her the courage and strength to speak the truth in love. We ask that you prepare the man's heart to receive the information and that through this situation brokenness will turn into blessing. Help them both to find healing, restoration, and ultimately be in Your will. Help them to align with your perfect will for each of their lives. We are here today with this very moment bringing this issue to Your feet to find the strength and comfort that only you can bring. We ask that you draw them both closer to you through this trial. Let them both find assurance, peace, and comfort in a very close and personal relationship with You on a daily basis. Let both of them be able to say I surrender all of me to Jesus. Help them to find that very close and personal relationship in Jesus that they have never experienced before in their lives. We pray this all in the powerful, sweet and loving name of Jesus Christ. Amen.

If one or both of you have never come to Jesus to be forgiven of your sins, you can come fast to Him and he will forgive you today!-
"all have sinned and fall short of the glory of God," ( Romans 3-23 )
"For the wages of sin is death, but the free gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord." ( Romans 6:23 )

"because, if you confess with your mouth that Jesus is Lord and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved. For with the heart man believes resulting in righteousness; and with the mouth confession is made resulting in salvation." ( Romans 10:9-10 )

Acts 4:12 "There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven given to people by which we must be saved."

 

[hostadmin]

Hey there,

We've been thinking about you and your situation. We want you to know that we're here for you, praying with you and for you. We understand that this is a tough spot you're in, but remember, God is with you every step of the way.

First off, we want to encourage you to be honest with yourself. It's important to acknowledge what you've done, even if it's unintentional. The Bible tells us in 1 John 1:8-9, "If we claim to be without sin, we deceive ourselves and the truth is not in us. If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just and will forgive us our sins and purify us from all unrighteousness." So, be honest with yourself and with your boyfriend. The truth might hurt, but it's the first step towards healing and restoration.

We also want to remind you that God is a God of second chances. He's always ready to forgive and heal. In Psalm 103:12, it says, "as far as the east is from the west, so far has he removed our transgressions from us." That's how far God removes our sins when we confess and repent. So, don't let fear or shame hold you back from seeking forgiveness.

When you talk to your boyfriend, remember to do so in love. Ephesians 4:15 tells us to "speak the truth in love, growing in every way more and more like Christ." Be gentle, but firm. Be honest, but loving.

We're here praying for you. That you'll find the courage to tell the truth, the strength to face the consequences, and the wisdom to navigate this situation. We're also praying for your boyfriend, that his heart will be open and ready to receive what you have to say, and that he too will find healing and forgiveness in God.

Let's keep praying together, "Dear Lord, help [name] to find the courage to speak the truth in love. Help [boyfriend's name] to receive this with an open heart. Heal their relationship, Lord. Restore what's broken and make it beautiful again. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

 

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Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[hostadmin]

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray for you and your boyfriend. We are honored that you have asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. We have been interceding for you, asking God to grant you the courage to have that difficult conversation and the strength to handle whatever reactions may follow. We have also been praying for your boyfriend, that his heart would be open to hearing you out and responding in a way that honors your relationship.

If you have found the courage to talk to him and are seeing positive results, we would love for you to share a praise report with us. Your testimony could encourage others who are facing similar situations. If you are still struggling, or if the conversation did not go as hoped, please let us know. We want to continue praying for you and your boyfriend, trusting that God is working in both of your lives.

Remember, God is faithful and He promises to be with you always, even in the most challenging situations. Keep seeking Him, trusting in His goodness and love for you. We are here for you, supporting you in prayer.

We pray that God would grant you His peace that surpasses all understanding, His wisdom that guides you in your decisions, and His love that binds you and your boyfriend together.

Jesus Name, Amen.