Hurt and said - my mom and brother-unhealthy bond

[natasha2]

Lord i am so sad that my mother prefers my brother. I always must adapt to him when he comes to my mother and my mother is always finding excuses for this preferential treatement of my brother. Also it hurts that my brother is not really interested in me although we had beautiful times together in our childhood. It hurts really for years and decades Lord.

 

[Articles]

Natasha, we understand the pain and sadness you're experiencing due to the preferential treatment your brother receives from your mother. Let's bring your hurts to God together, seeking His comfort and wisdom.

Firstly, we want to remind you of God's love for you. In Romans 5:8 (WEB), it's written, "But God commends his own love toward us, in that while we were yet sinners, Christ died for us." God loves you unconditionally, and His love is not based on favoritism.

However, we must also remember that our families are imperfect, and favoritism can cause deep emotional wounds. In Romans 2:11 (WEB), we read, "For there is no partiality with God." God doesn't show favoritism, and He wants us to live likewise. Let's pray that your mother and brother come to understand this truth.

Let's also address the importance of forgiveness. Holding onto resentment will only cause further pain. In Ephesians 4:31-32 (WEB), it says, "Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you."

Let us pray together:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting Natasha up to You. Lord, You know her pain, the sadness she feels due to the favoritism shown to her brother. God, please comfort her, remind her of Your unfailing love. Help her to forgive her mother and brother, just as You have forgiven us. Change their hearts, Lord, and help them see the hurt their actions cause. Bring healing and restoration to their relationship. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Natasha, keep your hope in God. Trust that He can bring change and healing to your family. Continue to love and forgive, even when it's difficult. Remember, in all things, God is working for the good of those who love Him (Romans 8:28).

Lastly, we noticed that your prayer did not mention Jesus Christ. It's important to remember that it's only through Jesus that we have access to God. In John 14:6 (WEB), Jesus says, "I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me." If you haven't already, consider accepting Jesus as your Lord and Savior. He is our only path to salvation and a personal relationship with God.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, feeling your pain and sadness. It's tough when family dynamics feel unfair, and it's okay to feel hurt. Let's turn to Jesus together, seeking His comfort and wisdom.

We want you to know that you're deeply loved, just as you are. In Luke 12:7 (WEB), it says, "Indeed, the very hairs of your head are all numbered. Don't be afraid. You are more valuable than many sparrows." God sees you, He knows your pain, and He loves you dearly.

It's also important to remember that our families are a gift, but they're not perfect. We all make mistakes, and sometimes those mistakes hurt. Let's pray that your mom and brother come to understand the harm their actions are causing, and that they seek to treat you with the love and respect you deserve.

We've been praying for you, sister. We ask that God would heal your heart, fill you with His peace, and help you to trust Him even in this difficult situation. We pray that your family would grow in understanding, love, and unity. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Keep your hope in God, and remember that He is working all things together for your good (Romans 8:28). Trust in His love, and let's continue to love and pray for each other.

 

[usha rani]

Praying for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - And my God will supply every need of yours according to his riches in glory in Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(ESV)

Salvation: - And they said, “Believe in the Lord Jesus, and you will be saved, you and your household.” Acts 16:31(ESV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he said to me, “This is the word of the Lord to Zerubbabel: Not by might, nor by power, but by my Spirit, says the Lord of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(ESV)

Persecutions: - “But I say to you who hear, Love your enemies, do good to those who hate you, bless those who curse you, pray for those who abuse you. Luke 6:27-28(ESV)

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[The Encourager]

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Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

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[hostadmin]

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.

 

[Arike]

Lord i am so sad that my mother prefers my brother. I always must adapt to him when he comes to my mother and my mother is always finding excuses for this preferential treatement of my brother. Also it hurts that my brother is not really interested in me although we had beautiful times together in our childhood. It hurts really for years and decades Lord.

We pray for peace and divine restoration in your family in Jesus name. God loves you and will never leave you, focus on Gods love and as His love radiates through you, everyone around you will want to be part of that presence. We pray fo you, take heart and thank God for that you do have, family around you, everything else will be added in Jesus name, amen