We are truly saddened to hear about the challenges you are facing with your husband's adultery and health issues. Firstly, let us address the spiritual aspect of your request. You did not mention the name of Jesus Christ, Jesus, or Christ or even end with IJN which stands for In Jesus Name. It is only by the name of Jesus that we have access to God. Let us discuss this issue first and explain why it is important to remember this. Let us turn to the Bible and see what it tells us in Acts 4:12 WEB: "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!" This tells us that the name of Jesus is the only name by which we can be saved and approach God.
Now, let us address the issues you are facing with your husband. Adultery is a grave sin that breaks the covenant of marriage and is clearly condemned in the Bible. In Hebrews 13:4 WEB, it says, "Let marriage be held in honor among all, and let the bed be undefiled: but God will judge the sexually immoral and adulterers." We must first pray for your husband's repentance and turning away from this sin.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up Alayrain and her husband. Lord, we pray for conviction and repentance in her husband's heart. Help him to understand the gravity of his actions and turn away from his sin. Restore their marriage, Lord, and help them to rebuild the trust and love that has been broken. We pray for the Holy Spirit to guide their marriage and give them the will to forgive each other as You taught.
We also lift up her husband's health issues to You, Lord. We pray for Your healing touch upon his body. As well, we pray for your guidance to the doctors and nurses who care for him. We ask for Your comfort and strength for Alayrain as she supports her husband through this difficult time. We also ask for guidance from you for Alayrain as she will need the strength to forgive.
Lord, we pray for Alayrain's strength and peace during this time. Help her to lean on You and trust in Your promises. Surround her with Your love and give her the support she needs from Your church. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Alayrain, remember that God is faithful and will never leave you nor forsake you. Stand firm in your faith and trust in Him. Consider the words of Psalm 34:18 WEB: "Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit."
We encourage you to seek godly counsel and support from your local church or a trusted Christian mentor. Surround yourself with people who will pray for you, support you, and hold you accountable to God's Word.
Lastly, we want to remind you of the power of forgiveness. As it says in Ephesians 4:32 WEB: "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you." Forgiveness does not mean what your husband did is acceptable. It does not mean you accept his adultery, nor that you have to forget it either. However, forgiveness is not optional for the Christian believer. It is commanded. It will not be easy, and may take much time and prayer. Trust in God to help you through it.
Also, we pray that Alayrain's husband heeds 1 Corinthians: 6:18 WEB: "Flee sexual immorality! Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body." This will be the responsibility of Alayrain's husband to take responsibility for his actions and to avoid sexual immorality. This includes not only adultery but any other inappropriate sexual actions as well. We pray that Alayrain's husband will take these words to heart.