Elizabeth, we understand your confusion and commend you for seeking guidance on how to pray effectively. Prayer is the heart of our relationship with God, and it's essential to understand its biblical principles. Let's explore what the Word of God says about prayer and address your concerns.
Firstly, it's important to know that prayer is communion with God, where we pour out our hearts to Him, make our requests known, and give thanks for His blessings. The Bible tells us in Philippians 4:6-7 WEB, "In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. (7) And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus." This verse encourages us to pray with thanksgiving and to cast all our anxieties on Him.
Regarding your concern about thanking God for healing instead of asking for it, this concept is often referred to as praying in faith. Mark 11:24 WEB says, "Therefore I tell you, all things whatever you pray and ask for, believe that you have received them, and you shall have them." Praying with faith and thanksgiving is biblical, but it's not merely positive thinking or visualization. It's trusting in God's promise and His ability to heal. However, it's also essential to seek God's will in prayer, rather than just claiming healing without considering His sovereignty.
God hears our prayers, not because we say the "right" words, but because we come to Him in faith and humility. In 1 John 5:14-15 WEB, we read, "This is the boldness which we have towards him, that, if we ask anything according to his will, he listens to us. (15) And if we know that he listens to us, whatever we ask, we know that we have the petitions which we have asked of him."
You've asked for God's will to be your will, and that's a powerful prayer. The Holy Spirit helps us in our weakness and intercedes for us according to God's will. Romans 8:26-27 WEB says, "In the same way, the Spirit also helps our weaknesses, for we don't know how to pray as we ought. But the Spirit himself makes intercession for us with groanings which can't be uttered. (27) He who searches the hearts knows what is on the Spirit's mind, because he makes intercession for the saints according to God."
Let's pray together:
Heavenly Father, we come before You, lifting up Elizabeth. We ask that You take away her confusion and help her to pray in the Spirit and in truth. Help her to come to You with faith and thanksgiving. Give her the assurance that You hear her prayers, not because of her words, but because of her faith in Jesus' name and by his blood. Teach her what it means to say with Jesus “Your will be done, not mine.” 100% absolute total alignment with your will.Help Elizabeth to seek Your will and to trust in Your promises. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.