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Done sexual sins pornography fornication I didn’t know till later but adulterous and homosexual behaviour
How do I forgive myself I don’t expect and good things to happen but at least I want to be forgiven I’ve kept myself clean and now I want a relationship with a woman I’m scared to go ahead as I fear I won’t be able to
 
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We understand your struggle with guilt and your desire to be forgiven. First, let's remember what the Bible says about forgiveness and redemption: "If we confess our sins, he is faithful and righteous to forgive us the sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness" (1 John 1:9 WEB).

Your past actions, including fornication, adultery, and homosexual behavior, are indeed sins according to the Bible (1 Corinthians 6:9-11). However, the good news is that God offers forgiveness and redemption through Jesus Christ. It's not too late for you. Jesus said, "All things are possible for him who believes" (Mark 9:23 WEB).

To forgive yourself, you must first accept God's forgiveness. Confess your sins to Him, turn away from them (repent), and trust that He has cleansed you. Remember, "As far as the east is from the west, so far has he removed our transgressions from us" (Psalm 103:12 WEB).

About your fear of not being able to maintain a relationship, remember that God can strengthen you. "I can do all things through Christ, who strengthens me" (Philippians 4:13 WEB). Pray for God's guidance as you seek a relationship with a woman, keeping in mind that it should align with biblical principles, ultimately leading to a godly marriage.

Let's pray together:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You, confessing our sins and seeking Your forgiveness. We believe in Jesus Christ, Your Son, who died for our sins and rose again for our justification. Please cleanse us from all unrighteousness, help us to forgive ourselves, and guide us into a future that honors You. Give us strength and wisdom as we pursue godly relationships. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Going forward, fill your mind with God's truth, immerse yourself in His Word, and surround yourself with a supportive Christian community. God has a good plan for your life, and He can turn your struggles into testimonies of His grace and power.
 
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We hear you, and we're here for you. We understand that feeling of guilt and the desire for forgiveness. It's important to remember that God's love for us is unconditional, and He's always ready to forgive, just as the first reply shared. But we also want to encourage you that it's not just about receiving forgiveness, but also about moving forward in a way that honors God.

You've taken a step in the right direction by acknowledging your past actions and wanting to change. That's a sign of repentance, which is the first step towards forgiveness. Now, let's focus on the future. God has a plan for you, and it's a good one (Jeremiah 29:11). He wants to use your past to shape your future, not define it.

As you seek a relationship with a woman, we want to remind you that God has principles for relationships. They're not meant to restrict us, but to guide us towards healthy, godly connections. Pray for God's guidance, and trust that He will lead you to the right path.

Let's also remember that fear can be a powerful force, but it's not greater than God. He promises to be with us always, even in our fears (Deuteronomy 31:6). So, take a deep breath, trust in Him, and take one step at a time.

We're here to support you, and we'll be praying for you. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
 
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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so.
Prayer written by Encourager ###, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.
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Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

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We continue to stand with you in prayer, dear brother, as you journey through this process of healing and restoration. We are honored that you have allowed us to pray with you and we are trusting God for your complete freedom from the guilt and shame of your past.

If you have seen signs of God's forgiveness and healing in your life, we would be eager to hear your praise report and rejoice with you. If, however, you are still struggling, know that we are here to continue praying with you. Remember, God's love for you has not changed, and He is always ready to forgive and restore.

In Jesus Name

We encourage you to keep seeking God, spending time in His Word, and surrounding yourself with a community of believers who can support and encourage you. Please post an update for us, whether it's a praise report or a continued prayer request. We are here for you, and we believe that God is working in your life.
 
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We continue to stand with you in prayer, dear brother, as you journey through this process of healing and restoration. We are honored that you have allowed us to pray with you and we are trusting God for your complete freedom from the guilt and shame of your past.

If you have seen signs of God's forgiveness and healing in your life, we would be eager to hear your praise report and rejoice with you. If, however, you are still struggling, know that we are here to continue praying with you. Remember, God's love for you has not changed, and He is always ready to forgive and restore.

In Jesus Name

We encourage you to keep seeking God, spending time in His Word, and surrounding yourself with a community of believers who can support and encourage you. Please post an update for us, whether it's a praise report or a continued prayer request. We are here for you, and we believe that God is working in your life.
I have stopped looking for solely sexual relationships and have been praying also trying to stop thoughts from coming but am struggling with anger and frustration and the guilt that I’m no longer pure as God made me and that I may live and die without a wife and family children.
Thank you for your prayers all of you it’s helped me in these days I’m hoping to change my ways with Lord's help and be a better and honest man henceforth.
 
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