How do I know is she is the one that Jesus sent to my wife

[Dexter2020]

How do I know is she is the one that Jesus sent to my wife as there is a girl named Felicia (cousin of Lovell) who happened to be single and provide concern to me and we are both in Lovell (the pastor) church of my current home church and she is like showing concern and even asked my opinions for gift and it was so coincidental that we met after the church in the MRT station and there are many signs to show that she might be testing water if I am fit to be her husband or have the who have Christian godly qualities she is looking for in a men or as a friend purely and asked me to seek God will and will be always encouraging me even asked her brother in law Lovell to talk to me about sexual immorality I dun know how he knows it but he somehow know it. Pray for Jesus to show me is she the one or just pure friends or friend turned into relationship and Jesus want me to merry her as it is so gray. IJN

 

[Articles]

Dexter2020, thank you for reaching out with your prayer request. We understand your situation and desire to discern God’s will regarding Felicia. Firstly, praise God that you are already seeking His wisdom and guidance. It's only by doing this can we follow His will instead of our own.

Courtship is sacred and Jesus commands us to love each other according to the scripture. We praise God that you are seeking His will for courtship through prayer.

Let's turn to the scripture for answers. In James 1:5 the scripture says: But if any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all liberally and without reproach, and it will be given to him.

In Philippians 4:6-7 In nothing be anxious, but in everything by prayer and pleading with thanksgiving let your requests be made known to God and the peace of God will guard your hearts and thoughts in Christ Jesus.

When seeking God's will in a mate, it's important that we are evenly yoked. Be ye not unequally yoked together with unbelievers: for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness? and what communion hath light with darkness? 2 Corinthians 6:14

Following God's will with our lives. The Bible is clear, that we aren't to just do whatever we want or think is right. Thy word is a lamp unto my feet, and a light unto my path. Psalm 119:105

Sexual immorality is out of the question for us as Christians that follow the scripture and Jesus. Rather, as those who know what it is to have been called by God out of darkness and into His own marvelous light. 1 Peter 2:9: Flee sexual immorality. Every sin that a man does is outside the body, but he who commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or don’t you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God’s.

We like the fact that you say that you love Jesus and seek His wisdom. However, it is not clear whether Felicia is a devoted Christian. You both need to have a strong mutual faith as believers in Jesus to be strongly yoked together. Is she sexually moral? If not then she is absolutely not the one. Are you both opposing sexual immorality or is it already happening? It is strongly recommended that in your prayer you seek advice from God above about this as well as her faith if it is unclear and not strong if you are both not trying to glorify God with your courtship. Many women will show interest or even pursue just for the attention or self-esteem uplifting. Make sure it is not ungodly or for wrong reasons because this is wrong and absolutely not the work of God.

Let us also discuss the mention of In Jesus Name a bit more. God has highly exalted him, and given him a name above every name, that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow, of those in heaven, those on earth, and those under the earth, and that every tongue should confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father. Philippians 2:9-11

Jesus isn't just some magic or power word mentioned in prayer without meaning that gives us a way to God. Christians have a deep personal belief in Jesus when we say this. Also, there are those that pray to others such as praying to Mary or a saint who is not alive anymore. This not a Biblical Christian practice. Non-Christians do this and it violates the commandment number 4 of idolatry. Jesus, God, The Holy Spirit are all ONE and the way to God the Father through Jesus. Christ means Messiah and refers to Jesus specifically.

We lift you up in prayer, Dexter2020. We pray for you wisdom and discernment. May God fill your heart and Felicia's heart. May you love each other only in Christ and not after the flesh. May He show you only His will for your courtship and everything else in your life according to His laws and commandments. Show you to walk in the spirit in your courtship. May He protect you from emotional or physical immorality of any kind of ungodly relationships in Jesus name that we pray. May we all be hopeful and have faith to be obedient to God.

We encourage both of you to be aware of the far-reaching implications and commitment of such a relationship and the immense responsibility of putting God first.

 

[hostadmin]

We've been thinking about your situation, Dexter, and we want to encourage you with a different perspective. It's great that you're seeking God's will, but remember, His timing is perfect. Sometimes, what seems like a coincidence could be God orchestrating things for His purpose.

Felicia showing concern and asking for your opinions might be her way of getting to know you better, but it's also important to consider her motives. As the Bible says, "Guard your heart above all else, for it determines the course of your life." Proverbs 4:23 (NLT)

We agree that sexual immorality is out of the question. But even beyond that, it's crucial to ensure that both of you are committed to growing in your faith and walking in God's ways. As 2 Corinthians 6:14 reminds us, we shouldn't be unequally yoked.

We pray that God gives you wisdom to discern His will in this situation. May He guide your heart and Felicia's, and may you both love each other only as He commands. In Jesus' name, we ask that He reveals His will for your relationship, and may you both have the courage to follow it, no matter the outcome. Amen.

 

[Bletchmouth]

I prayed for this in Jesus name. Amen

 

[Brother in Christ (JC)]

How do I know is she is the one that Jesus sent to my wife as there is a girl named Felicia (cousin of Lovell) who happened to be single and provide concern to me and we are both in Lovell (the pastor) church of my current home church and she is like showing concern and even asked my opinions for gift and it was so coincidental that we met after the church in the MRT station and there are many signs to show that she might be testing water if I am fit to be her husband or have the who have Christian godly qualities she is looking for in a men or as a friend purely and asked me to seek God will and will be always encouraging me even asked her brother in law Lovell to talk to me about sexual immorality I dun know how he knows it but he somehow know it. Pray for Jesus to show me is she the one or just pure friends or friend turned into relationship and Jesus want me to merry her as it is so gray. IJN

I pray in agreement with you my friend, in the mighty name of Jesus I pray, amen.

 

[EnricoLange]

Lord Jesus please richly bless, protect and guide them. Please help them in accordance with your perfect will Father. Thank you and praise you. In your holy name I pray. Amen.

 

[usha rani]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[hostadmin]

We are truly honored that you have shared your heart with us and allowed us to intercede on your behalf, especially regarding such a personal and important matter. We have been faithfully praying for you, asking God to reveal His will concerning Felicia and the role she might play in your life. We trust that God is working in your situation and will guide you according to His perfect plan.

If you have received clarity or an answer to your prayer request, we would be delighted to hear your praise report. Your testimony could be a great encouragement to others who are also seeking God's will in their lives. If you are still uncertain and seeking God's direction, please do not hesitate to share an update or submit a new request. We are more than willing to continue standing with you in prayer.

In the meantime, may God grant you peace, wisdom, and discernment as you seek His will. May He bless you richly as you continue to draw near to Him through Jesus Christ. We are praying that God will make His will clear and that you will experience His perfect peace. Do not be discouraged but continue to trust in the Lord with all your heart, and lean not on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight. In Jesus Name.