How do I know is she is the one that God sent to my wife

[Dexter2020]

How do I know is she is the one that Jesus sent to my wife as there is a girl named Felicia (cousin of Lovell) who happened to be single and provide concern to me and we are both in Lovell (the pastor) church of my current home church and she is like showing concern and even asked my opinions for gift and it was so coincidental that we met after the church in the MRT station and there are many signs to show that she might be testing water or as a friend purely and asked me to seek God will and will be always encouraging me even asked her brother in law Lovell to talk to me about sexual immorality I dun know how he knows it but he somehow know it. Pray for Jesus to show me is she the one. IJN

 

[Articles]

Dexter2020, let us begin by remembering that God's will is always best for our lives, and He guides us through His Word and the Holy Spirit. When seeking God's will in a relationship, it's crucial to align with biblical principles.

Firstly, it's important to note that the Bible teaches us to avoid fornication and sexual immorality, as it is a sin against our own body and God. As it is written in 1 Corinthians 6:18-20 WEB:
Flee sexual immorality! Every sin that a person does is outside the body, but whoever commits sexual immorality sins against his own body. Or don't you know that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit who is in you, whom you have from God? You are not your own, for you were bought with a price. Therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God's.

It is commendable that you are seeking God's will in this situation. Remember, God's will is not found through mere coincidences or signs, but through His Word and the leading of the Holy Spirit. As it is written in Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB:
Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and don't lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will make your paths straight.

It is concerning that you mention Felicia might be "testing the waters." If this implies any form of sexual immorality, we strongly advise against it. God's design for relationships is clear: they should be pure and honorable, with marriage as the goal. As it is written in Ephesians 5:3 WEB:
But sexual immorality, and all uncleanness, or covetousness, let it not even be mentioned among you, as becomes saints.

Regarding your uncertainty about how Lovell knows about your situation, it could be that God has used him to guide and correct you. As brothers and sisters in Christ, we should hold each other accountable and encourage one another in purity.

It is also important to note that you did not mention the name of Jesus Christ, Jesus, or Christ or an abbreviation such as IJN (In Jesus Name). Make sure that you are in constant prayer to God through the name of Jesus Christ. It is in the name of Jesus where we find forgiveness and deliverance from sins. Remember,
Be it known to all of you, and to all the people of Israel, that in the name of Jesus Christ of Nazareth, whom you crucified, whom God raised from the dead, in him does this man stand here before you whole. He is 'the stone which was regarded as worthless by you, the builders, which has become the head of the corner.' There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved!" (Acts 4:10-12, WEB).

Let us pray together:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You in the name of Jesus, seeking Your will for Dexter2020's life. We pray that You guide him in this situation with Felicia, and that Your will is done. Help him to discern Your voice and to follow Your paths. Give him the strength to flee from sexual immorality and to pursue purity and righteousness. We ask this in Jesus' name. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We've been thinking about your situation, Dexter, and we wanted to share some more thoughts with you. It's clear that you're seeking God's will in this, and that's a great first step.

First off, it's encouraging to see that Felicia is showing concern and asking for your opinions. However, we should always be cautious when it comes to romantic feelings, especially when they're not yet married. As we've seen in the Bible, it's important to avoid any appearance of evil (1 Thessalonians 5:22). So, while it's great to have a friend who cares, we should ensure that our interactions remain pure and above reproach.

We also noticed that you mentioned "testing the waters." While it might seem innocent, it's important to remember that God wants us to be pure in our thoughts, words, and actions (Matthew 5:8). So, let's be careful not to put ourselves in situations that could compromise our purity.

It's also good to remember that God often speaks to us through His Word and the Holy Spirit. So, let's be in prayer, seeking God's guidance and wisdom in this. Let's ask Him to make our paths straight (Proverbs 3:6).

And remember, Dexter, God has a plan for you, and it's a good plan (Jeremiah 29:11). Trust in Him, and He will guide you.

Let's pray together:

"Dear Lord, we come to you today, asking for your guidance in Dexter's situation. Help him to discern your voice and to follow your paths. Give him the strength to flee from impurity and to pursue purity and righteousness. Help us all to be wise and to act in a way that pleases you. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

 

[Brother in Christ (JC)]

I pray in agreement with you my friend, in the mighty name of Jesus I pray, amen.

 

[usha rani]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[hostadmin]

We continue to lift you up in prayer regarding your query about Felicia and whether she is the one whom God has intended for you. We are honored that you have allowed us to stand in agreement with you in this matter, seeking the Lord's will for your life.

If you have received clarity or confirmation about this situation, we would be delighted to hear about it. Please share a praise report so that we can all rejoice with you. If you are still seeking God's will and have not received a definitive answer, we encourage you to post your request again. We are more than willing to persist in prayer with you, asking the Lord to reveal His will for you and Felicia.

We pray that God will give you discernment, wisdom, and peace throughout this process. May He bless you richly as you continue to seek Him through His son, Jesus Christ. We ask for His guidance and direction to be made clear to you, in Jesus Name.