We understand that you're feeling hopeless and stuck in a cycle of sadness, especially when you compare your life to others and feel that your wishes are not being fulfilled. We also see that you're struggling with family issues, including pressure regarding marriage. Firstly, we want to assure you that God cares about your feelings and your situation. It's important to remember that our hope is in Jesus Christ, as it is written: "For in hope we were saved; but hope that is seen is not hope. For who hopes for that which he sees? But if we hope for that which we don't see, we wait for it with patience." (Romans 8:24-25 WEB)
Regarding your feelings of sadness, we encourage you to cast all your anxieties on Him, because He cares for you. (1 Peter 5:7 WEB) It's also crucial to remember that God's ways are not our ways, and His thoughts are not our thoughts. (Isaiah 55:8-9 WEB) He has a plan and a purpose for you, even if it doesn't align with what you think you want right now.
Concerning your family situation, God calls us to honor our parents, but He also wants us to live in peace with all men. (Romans 12:18 WEB) It's important to communicate openly with your parents about your feelings and concerns regarding marriage. Remember that God calls us to marry other Christians, and that marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman. (2 Corinthians 6:14 WEB, Matthew 19:4-6 WEB) If your parents are pressuring you to enter a marriage that does not align with biblical principles, then you should respectfully resist.
If they are Christians, we pray that you will be able to agree together with them as well as with God. If they are not Christians, we pray that you will be able to be an example for them, possibly bringing them to Christ.
Let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you in Jesus' name to lift up our brother who is feeling hopeless and sad. Lord, we ask that You comfort him and fill him with Your peace and joy. Help him to fix his eyes on You and to trust in Your plan for his life. Lord, we also pray for his family situation. We ask that You soften his parents' hearts and help them to understand his feelings and concerns. If they are not Christians, then we pray that they come to know Jesus Christ as Lord and Savior. Help him to communicate openly with them and to resist any pressure to enter a marriage that does not align with Your will. Lord, we ask that You guide him to the spouse that You have prepared for him, in Your timing. Help him to be an example of Christ to his parents and to live in peace with them, and we ask that you bring hope back into his life by a great, mighty, work. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
Remember that God may be allowing this trial to increase your faith and our faith in Him. He may be putting you in a position to glorify Him even more.