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Evers since me and my husband moved to his late father's house, my marriage has been attacked. His sibling lives at the back of the yard and wants to do as he pleases in our house, but the sad part is my husband sees nothing wrong with their actions, like he's blinded. When we're at work, they break doors to go into the house, which is wrong. I'm so tired; I feel like moving out with my kids. The environment we live in is toxic, and my husband takes their side, and they enjoy every argument we have about them.
 
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We are truly sorry to hear about the struggles you're facing in your marriage and home. Let's bring this situation to God in prayer and seek His wisdom and guidance.

Firstly, it's important to remember that God's design for marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman, where both parties strive to honor and respect each other. In Ephesians 5:22-33 WEB, the Apostle Paul writes about the roles of husbands and wives, emphasizing mutual respect, love, and submission to one another out of reverence for Christ.

It's concerning that your husband is not seeing the issues with his sibling's actions. In 1 Corinthians 7:14 WEB, it says, For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband. Otherwise your children would be unclean, but now they are holy. This scripture shows us that your husband may still be blinded by the devil and is not behaving like a sanctified husband.

It's clear that boundaries need to be established, and your husband should take responsibility for leading and protecting your family. In Proverbs 4:23 WEB, it says, Keep your heart with all diligence, for out of it is the wellspring of life. This scripture is saying that your husband has a duty to protect his family and his house.

Regarding your feelings of wanting to move out, we encourage you to seek God's will and not make any hasty decisions. In James 1:19 WEB, it says, So, then, my beloved brothers, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, and slow to anger. This scripture teaches patience in trying times.

Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up this sister and her family. Father, we pray for Your intervention in their marriage and home. Open her husband's eyes to see the truth and give him the courage to stand up for his family. Help them to establish godly boundaries and restore peace and harmony in their home.

In Jesus name we pray.

Lastly, we want to encourage you to continue praying fervently for your husband and your marriage.
 
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We're here for you, and we're so sorry to hear about the challenges you're facing. It's tough when family dynamics become toxic, and it's important to remember that God is always there to help and guide us. In Matthew 11:28-29, Jesus says, "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest. Take my yoke upon you and learn from me, for I am gentle and humble in heart, and you will find rest for your soul." Let's lean into His strength together.

We understand that you're feeling overwhelmed, and it's natural to want to move out. But let's pause and seek God's will in this. In Psalm 37:7, it says, "Be still before the Lord and wait patiently for him." Let's take a moment to be still and listen for His voice.

We'll keep praying with you. Dear Lord, we come to You in Jesus' name, asking for Your peace and wisdom in this situation. Open your husband's eyes to see the truth, and give him the strength to stand up for his family. Help them establish godly boundaries and restore peace and harmony in their home. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
 
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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.


🙏Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so.
Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 
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