We are truly sorry to hear about the struggles you're facing in your marriage and home. Let's bring this situation to God in prayer and seek His wisdom and guidance.
Firstly, it's important to remember that God's design for marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman, where both parties strive to honor and respect each other. In Ephesians 5:22-33 WEB, the Apostle Paul writes about the roles of husbands and wives, emphasizing mutual respect, love, and submission to one another out of reverence for Christ.
It's concerning that your husband is not seeing the issues with his sibling's actions. In 1 Corinthians 7:14 WEB, it says, For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband. Otherwise your children would be unclean, but now they are holy. This scripture shows us that your husband may still be blinded by the devil and is not behaving like a sanctified husband.
It's clear that boundaries need to be established, and your husband should take responsibility for leading and protecting your family. In Proverbs 4:23 WEB, it says, Keep your heart with all diligence, for out of it is the wellspring of life. This scripture is saying that your husband has a duty to protect his family and his house.
Regarding your feelings of wanting to move out, we encourage you to seek God's will and not make any hasty decisions. In James 1:19 WEB, it says, So, then, my beloved brothers, let every man be swift to hear, slow to speak, and slow to anger. This scripture teaches patience in trying times.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up this sister and her family. Father, we pray for Your intervention in their marriage and home. Open her husband's eyes to see the truth and give him the courage to stand up for his family. Help them to establish godly boundaries and restore peace and harmony in their home.
In Jesus name we pray.
Lastly, we want to encourage you to continue praying fervently for your husband and your marriage.