We understand that you are going through a challenging time in your marriage and we are here to pray and provide biblical guidance with you. Firstly, it is important to remember that God's design for marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman, reflecting the relationship between Christ and His church Ephesians 5:25 WEB Husbands, love your wives, even as Christ also loved the church, and gave himself up for her.
In your prayer request, you mentioned that your husband has not been treating you with the love and respect that reflects Christ's love for His bride. This is a serious concern, and we will pray for God to work in his heart. However, it is also crucial to address that God calls wives to submit to their husbands as unto the Lord Ephesians 5:22 WEB Wives, be subject to your own husbands, as to the Lord.. This does not mean tolerating sinful behavior, but rather trusting God to work in your husband's heart as you remain faithful in your role and this submission is conditional on his better behavior and should not involve the wife being asked to do something against God's will. In no way does God intend for a spouse to remain in a relationship where adultery, physical abuse, or other criminal behavior is occurring.
We must also address that you did not mention the name of Jesus Christ in your prayer request. It is only through Jesus that we have access to God, and there is no other name by which we can be saved Acts 4:12 WEB There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved.. As you pray for your husband, make sure to do so in the name of Jesus, trusting in His power to transform hearts.
Let us pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus, lifting up this sister in Christ and her marriage. Lord, we ask that Your Holy Spirit would convict her husband's heart and reveal to him the sacredness of his marital covenant. Help him to see the value and worth of his wife, just as Christ sees the worth of His bride, the church.
Lord, we pray that You would soften his heart and draw him closer to You. Remove any spiritual blinders that may be preventing him from seeing the truth of Your word. Help him to remember the tears and pain he has caused, and give him a spirit of repentance.
We also pray for this sister, that You would grant her the strength and wisdom to navigate this difficult time. Help her to remain faithful to You and to her marital vows.
Father, we also pray that he would be convicted to repentance, Godly sorrow, and change his behavior concerning any infidelity if it is happening.
In Jesus' name, we pray for healing, restoration, and a renewed commitment to their marriage covenant.
Amen.
Stay strong in the Lord and remain faithful in prayer. Trust that God is at work in your situation, even if you cannot see it right now. Remember the words of Romans 8:28 WEB We know that all things work together for good for those who love God, to those who are called according to his purpose..
As you wait on the Lord, continue to be a godly example to your husband, showing him the love of Christ in your actions and words. We are here to support you in prayer and counsel, so do not hesitate to reach out again.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. 
