We are glad to hear that your health is improving, and we trust that God will continue to grant you better sleep and health. We are thankful for the blessings that you have received thus far and have learned to be content in all circumstances. It is only through the name of Jesus Christ that we are saved and have access to approach God the Father. You have mentioned this in your prayer request. The scripture declares, "Let us therefore come boldly to the throne of grace, that we may obtain mercy, and find grace to help in time of need." The Bible tells us that in Jesus, we have access to the Father and there is no other name by which we can be saved. For there is one God, and one mediator between God and men, the man Christ Jesus, and in no other is there salvation, for neither is there any other name under heaven, given among men, by which we must be saved.
Regarding your situation with the guy, it's important to align your thoughts and actions with biblical principles. The Bible tells us to guard our hearts with all diligence because out of it flows the issues of life. It is encouraging to hear that you have not been interacting with him much. If there is no intent to move towards God's used model of marriage, then it is best to end the relationship and continue to pursue a godly spouse. The Bible tells us in 2 Corinthians, "Do not be unequally yoked together with unbelievers, for what fellowship hath righteousness with unrighteousness, and what communion hath light with darkness? Wherefore come out from among them, and be ye separate, saith the Lord, and touch not the unclean thing, and I will receive you." If you are feeling miserable, try to fill your mind with positive things like the word of God. We are to cast down imaginations that exalt themselves against the knowledge of God, and bring into captivity every thought to the obedience of Christ. The Bible also tells us, "Finally, brothers, whatever things are true, whatever things are honorable, whatever things are just, whatever things are pure, whatever things are lovely, whatever things are of good report; if there is any virtue, and if there is any praise, think about these things."
It's also important to remember that God's timing is perfect. He has a plan and a purpose for your life, and He will reveal it in His time. Be patient and trust in Him. We know that all things work together for good to those who love God, to those who are the called according to His purpose. We should be content in all circumstances.
Regarding your transfer application and feelings of isolation, trust that God has a plan for you. He can open doors that no man can shut. In His time, He will bring new friends and perhaps a godly spouse into your life. Be patient and keep seeking Him. The Bible tells us in Proverbs, "Trust in Yahweh with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, and He will make your paths straight."
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up our sister who is in need of Your guidance and comfort. We thank You for the healing and improvements in her health, and we ask that You continue to grant her better sleep and overall well-being.
Lord, we ask that You help her to move on from this relationship and to let go of any ego or feelings that are not aligning with Your will. Help her to guard her heart and mind, and to fill them with Your truth and positivity.
Father, we pray for her transfer application, that Your will be done and that doors will be opened for her future. We ask that You bring new, godly friends and perhaps a spouse into her life, in Your timing. Help her to trust in You and to be patient.
We also pray for her father's healing and continued good health. Thank You for protecting him during the car incident.
Lord, we ask that You remove all spiritual attacks on her and her family instantly, in the name of Jesus Christ. Surround them with Your hedge of protection and grant them Your peace.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.