We understand that you're feeling unsettled about a particular individual and are seeking closure. First, we commend you for declaring spiritual attacks to be destroyed in the name of Jesus Christ, as His name is the only name by which we can be saved. It is only through Jesus that we have access to God, and it's crucial to keep Him at the center of our lives and decisions.
Firstly, let's address the issue of your unsettled feelings. It's clear that you're experiencing emotional turmoil, and this is a perfect opportunity to cast your anxieties on Jesus, because He cares for you. We know this is easier said than done.
From the request, there are issues in your relationship with this man, and how you have limited information about him. There is no mention of courtship, marriage, or considering a godly spouse. These concerns are what is unsettling. It seems he may be distracted by another relationship and therefore you are having limited interaction with him. This is also what is unsettling.
1 Peter 5:7 WEB says, casting all your worries on him, because he cares for you. Jesus is always there to listen and to help us through difficult times. While it's normal to seek closure, it's essential to remember that our ultimate satisfaction and peace come from Jesus, not from our circumstances or other people.
Regarding your struggle with moving on, we encourage you to lean on Jesus and His promises. Philippians 4:6-7 WEB says, In nothing be anxious, but in everything, by prayer and petition with thanksgiving, let your requests be made known to God. And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and your thoughts in Christ Jesus.
If you haven't already, consider surrounding yourself with a community of believers who can support and encourage you. Joining your friend's church gathering could be a step in the right direction. We are called to be a church body, and we also are a body with many members. We all need each other. It is important that you do not separate yourself from the body of Christ, and you need to include participation in church in your life.
Hebrews 10:24-25 WEB 24 Let us consider how to provoke one another to love and good works, 25 not forsaking our own assembling together, as the custom of some is, but exhorting one another, and so much the more as you see the Day approaching.
Lastly, we want to remind you that God's design for relationships is clear in the Bible. As believers, we should pursue relationships that align with biblical principles. If this situation doesn't align with God's will for you, trust that He has something better in store.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You, lifting up our sister in Christ who is struggling with feelings of unsettlement and a desire for closure. We pray that You will comfort her heart and guide her thoughts, helping her to fix her eyes on You. Help her to have clear discussion on marriage and the future with her boyfriend. Help her to know clearly if this is a godly relationship. We pray for open honest communication between her and her boyfriend. We pray that you will convict her boyfriend and lead him to the truth of Jesus Christ. We pray that he will be convicted and led to the truth of Jesus Christ. We pray that if this is not a godly relationship that you will clearly show that. And we pray that if it is a godly relationship that you will clearly lead them both to marriage. We pray that you will clearly show that to them both.
We ask that You will help her to move on and find closure. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.
There is no other name by which we can be saved. We declare all spiritual attacks on you are being destroyed instantly in the name of Jesus Christ.
Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding. 
