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[Mysariyrael]

This is really deep and about abuse and SA Can I get some prayers? My sister has been abusive to me my whole life and most abusive now is psychological and spiritual. But it used to be physical/sexual. Sexual stopped at like 8 and physical stopped at 15 but the emotional abuse and bullying stayed. She denies it all, especially the psychological abuse now, and blames it on me. Everything since our mom passed away, she even said that because of my disability, my mom passed away because my mom had to help me with my equipment in and out of the car. She's gotten people against me. She makes fun of me for believing in Jesus. She uses my past mistakes against me and she’ll do it so perfectly she knows that I’ll be distraught from what she tells me. She’s able to get information from people I thought I trusted, like my aunt, and use that information against me as well, and the guy my mom was dating stuck around. They only dated like three years, not like he’s like my stepdad or anything. I never had a father. She said wants him for all his money and wants to use him for all he got because that’s what she does—uses people. And if you call her out on anything, she’ll destroy you with her words, spiritually, psychologically, gaslight you, and everyone around you. She plants seeds into people. She made fun of me for not wanting to cuss anymore or drink or do anything bad and says that I’m like an 80-year-old and I’m no fun and nobody would ever want to talk to me or tell me anything because of the person I am. I started crying and she just hangs up or she thinks it’s funny when I cry. Please pray that she will see what she’s done to me and realize that she can’t abuse people anymore. I blocked her and blocked everyone because I don’t want to deal with it anymore, but I feel this heartache from all the words she said to me and all the things she’s done. I’ve healed from the physical abuse mostly; the psychological and spiritual abuse has left bigger scars. Pray I heal too.

 

[Articles]

We are truly heartbroken to hear about the abuse and trauma you have experienced at the hands of your sister. We stand with you in the name of Jesus Christ, and we condemn any and all abuse, especially when perpetrated in a familial relationship. Abuse, in any form, is a sin and destructive to both the victim and the perpetrator. We plea to God to bring an end to the abuse and for healing. As our Lord Jesus Christ says in Mark 7:21-23:

For from within, out of the hearts of men, proceed evil thoughts, adulteries, sexual sins, murders, thefts, coveting, wickedness, deceit, lustful desires, envy, slander, pride, and foolishness. All these evil things come from within, and defile the man.

Your sister's actions, including her manipulation, gaslighting, and emotional abuse, are clearly against biblical principles. The Bible tells us that the fruit of the Spirit is love, joy, peace, long-suffering, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. We pray for your sister to have a genuine encounter with the living God, leading to true repentance and a change of heart. A heart that would bring conviction for her to treat you as the Bible dictates in 1 Peter 3:8-9:

Finally, be all like-minded, compassionate, loving as brothers, tenderhearted, courteous, not rendering evil for evil, or insult for insult; but instead blessing, knowing that you were called to this, that you may inherit a blessing.

As for you, dear one, we pray that the Lord would heal your wounds, both visible and invisible. We praise you for your stand for purity and righteousness, even in the face of ridicule. Remember that Jesus said in Matthew 5:10-12:

Blessed are those who have been persecuted for righteousness’ sake, for theirs is the Kingdom of Heaven. Blessed are you when people reproach you, persecute you, and say all kinds of evil against you falsely, for my sake. Rejoice, and be exceedingly glad, for great is your reward in heaven.

Continue to stand firm in your faith and do not let your sister's words sway you from the truth you believe. Stand strong in your decision to avoid drinking, substance abuse, and profanity, knowing that your body is a temple of the Holy Spirit, and should be honored as such.

Regarding your request, we noticed that you did not mention the name of Jesus Christ. We would like you to know that it is only through His name that we have access to God the Father. As scripture says in John 14:6:

Jesus said to him, “I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.

And also in Acts 4:12:

“There is salvation in no one else, for there is no other name under heaven that is given among men, by which we must be saved”.

Now let us pray together.

Heavenly Father, we come before You in the mighty name of Jesus Christ, lifting up Your beloved one to give all these troubles to you. We ask You to bring an end to the abuse and emotional torture that she experiences at the hands of her sister. We pray that You would soften her sister's heart and bring her to true repentance. We also ask that You would heal the wounds, and bring strength and comfort to her and bring her the basic needs that her sister has taken away. Give her the strength and courage to forgive, just as Jesus forgave those who persecuted Him. Help her to show love towards her sister through this forgiveness. We pray that You would raise up godly friends and family members to support and encourage her as she walks through this difficult time. Help her to keep her eyes fixed on You, Jesus, the author, and perfecter of our faith. In the precious name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.

Please remember that forgiveness is not about saying that what happened is acceptable, forgiveness is giving up your right to revenge. Forgiveness does not mean what your sister did is now okay. Forgiveness is not about restored trust, and it is not about restored relationship. If repentance is not present then reconciliation cannot occur. Forgiveness ensures that bitterness and resentment do not take root in your heart.

 

[hostadmin]

We're so sorry to hear about the pain you're going through. It's not fair that you've had to endure this abuse, especially from someone who's supposed to love and protect you. We're here for you, standing with you, and we're going to pray for you and your sister together.

Let's start by asking God to open your sister's heart. We pray that she would see the hurt she's causing and understand the impact of her words and actions. We ask that she would have a change of heart, turning from her abusive behavior and towards love, kindness, and respect. We also pray for healing for you, dear one. We ask that God would heal the wounds in your heart, both old and new, and fill you with His love and peace.

We also lift up your request to God, asking Him to intervene in your situation. We pray that He would bring justice and healing, and that He would use this difficult time to draw you and your sister closer to Him. We ask that He would give you strength and courage to face each day, and that He would surround you with people who love and support you.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

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[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You. Thank You for loving me. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, mind, soul, body, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me in every area of my life. Deliver and cleanse me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by The Encourager, Woman of God, Prayer Warrior, Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

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