We understand that you are going through a difficult time and feel deeply hurt, but we must address some issues in your request that do not align with biblical principles. While it is natural to feel pain and anger when wounded, the Bible teaches us not to seek revenge or wish harm upon others. Instead, we are called to love and forgive, even when it is challenging.
Firstly, let's consider what the WEB says about revenge and bitterness:"'Vengeance is mine,' says Yahweh, 'I will repay.' ... Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good." (Romans 12:19,21)
"Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander, be put away from you, with all malice." (Ephesians 4:31)
It is crucial to remember that vengeance belongs to God alone. We should not wish harm or punishment upon others, including your husband or any narcissists in your life. Instead, trust that God will deal with them justly.
Regarding your marriage, we must emphasize that God's will is for reconciliation and restoration, not immediate divorce.
"For Yahweh, the God of Israel, says that he hates divorce; for one covers violence with his garment, says Yahweh of Armies. Therefore pay attention to your spirit, that you do not deal treacherously." (Malachi 2:16)
We encourage you to seek godly counseling and support to help you work through this difficult time. If there is abuse involved, please take steps to ensure your safety and the safety of any children involved.
Now, let us pray for you:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You, lifting up our sister in her time of need. We pray that You will heal her broken heart and fill her with Your peace that surpasses all understanding. Help her to forgive those who have caused her pain, and to release the bitterness and anger she feels. Lord, we ask that You work in her marriage, bringing healing, restoration, and reconciliation if it is in accordance with Your will. Guide her and her husband, and soften their hearts towards each other.
In the name of Jesus Christ, we rebuke the spirit of hatred, negativity, and unforgiveness. We pray that You will remove these feelings from her heart and replace them with Your love, kindness, and compassion. Help her to trust in You and to wait patiently for Your justice.
We also pray for her husband and any others who have caused her pain. We ask that You reveal to them the error of their ways and draw them to repentance. Surround them with godly influences and bring conviction to their hearts.
Finally, we pray that You will guide our sister and provide her with wise counsel. Give her the strength to endure this trial and to make decisions that honor and glorify You.
In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.