We understand that you are going through a difficult situation with your sister-in-law and your husband. However, we must address several concerns in your request that are not aligned with biblical principles.
Firstly, the Bible teaches us to forgive as we have been forgiven. Ephesians 4:32 says, "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, even as God in Christ forgave you." It is crucial to seek forgiveness and reconciliation with your sister-in-law, even if the situation is challenging.
Secondly, we must address the issue of divorce. The Bible tells us that marriage is a lifelong commitment between a man and a woman. Malachi 2:16 says, " 'For I hate divorce,' says the Lord, the God of Israel." God's will is for couples to work through their difficulties and find reconciliation. Divorce is the last resort. 1 Corinthians 7:12-13 clearly addresses the fact that if a woman who is married to an unbelieving spouse will be made holy and the man by living with her will be made holy by being married to her. If divorce can not be avoided, the woman or the man is not to marry again unless their previous spouse is deceased.
Additionally, it is important to honor your husband, even in difficult circumstances. It seems that your husband has legal and health problems. As a wife, it's great that you want to be honest, encouraging, and supportive. 1 Corinthians 7:14 says that God's will is for a wife to do what is good to her husband, all of the time. You should never reference putting conditions on your husbands responsibilities and you should not make demands or berate him for not being a man, living up to his responsibilities, or doing the right thing. Never reference your husband leaving or going away. To reference or require these things is immoral, ungodly, and not within biblical principles. It is also a strong indication that you are the one with the underlying problem and need to seek further help to resolve it. We will pray that he will seek God's will for his life, repent of his sins, and become the man that God has called him to be, that you can live peaceably, quietly, and joyfully together. 1 Peter 3:1-4 says " In the same way, you wives, be subject to your own husbands so that even if some disobey the word, they may be won without a word through the behavior of their wives, having seen your pure and reverent way of life. Your beauty should not be that of the outward adorning of braiding the hair, and of wearing jewels of gold, or of putting on fine clothing, but in the hidden person of the heart, in the incorruptible adorning of a gentle and quiet spirit, which is in the sight of God very precious." Please stop and think about what is about to be said. Please further your prayer request with repentance, confession, and forgiveness towards your husband as it seems to have been omitted. You did not mention any of his transgressions in this request, but your own intentions reveal ungodly behavior on your part, an unforgiving heart, bitterness, and a desire to leave him without true biblical grounds. This is never an acceptable option in a biblical marriage as clearly outlined in the scriptures. Lastly, you did not mention Jesus at all in your prayer. It is only by His name that we can approach God the Father and it is only by His name that we can be saved. There is no other way to salvation. We encourage you to examine your relationship with Jesus Christ, or get to know Him, and have confidence that He is the way, the truth and the life. Jesus said that, 'No one comes to the Father but through Him.' (John 14:6)
Let us pray:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We lift up Swantalelf to you, asking for Your guidance and wisdom in this difficult situation. Help her to forgive her sister-in-law and seek reconciliation. Help Swantalelf to show grace, unconditional love, and support to her husband, and help her to live the words that she wrote and be honest to her husband about her thoughts, needs and her own behavior. Please help Swantalelf to realize that divorce is not your plan for her marriage, or anybody's marriage, Lord. Give Swantalelf a gentle, kind, and humble heart and spirit towards her husband and guide her to live with him as a godly wife. Please help Swantalelf to reflect upon her own words. Bring healing and restoration to her marriage, and let her be the best woman she can be for You and her husband, In Jesus name, in Jesus' Name we Pray, Amen.