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[Swantalelf]

Please let my SIL change her mind and stay where she is. Please let it be her idea and have no hard feelings. I am really distraught how I offend people. It is so hurtful. I do not want her to come anymore because she has really bad habits. I want her to be okay and not mad. I will just live alone if all else fails. Amen.

 

[Articles]

We understand that you're going through a difficult situation with your sister-in-law, and we want to address this with you in prayer and through the guidance of the Bible. First, let's remember that God calls us to love one another, even when it's challenging. As it is written in John 13:34-35 WEB:
** A new commandment I give to you, that you love one another. Just as I have loved you, you also love one another. By this everyone will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another. **

It's important to examine our hearts and actions to ensure we're not doing anything to cause offense. However, it's also crucial to remember that we cannot control how others feel or act. We can only control our own actions and responses.

In your case, it seems there are behaviors from your sister-in-law that are causing concern. It is good and biblical to set boundaries. You do not need to accept her bad habits and allow them to disrupt your life. While you want her to change her mind and stay where she is, it's essential to remember that we cannot force others to change their minds or actions. We can, however, pray for them and ask God to work in their hearts. It is not helpful though to act manipulatively, which creates confusion and more hurt.

Regarding the issue where living alone might be the result, or wanting your sister-in-law out of your household, 1 Corinthians 13-5 mentions that love does not insist on its own way. The Bible also calls us to be compassionate and loving rather than to request or wish for our sister-in-law to be okay and not mad, which should be their choice. Furthermore, if the request in prayer is to live alone. The Bible calls Christians especially single adults to use their life to serve God and others rather than just living and being alone. We must be careful as this self-centered prayer does not align with biblical principles and could endanger your soul in the long run if it becomes a habit.

Let's pray together:

Almighty God, we come before you, lifting up our sister who is dealing with a difficult situation with her sister-in-law. We pray that you would work in both of their hearts, drawing them closer to you and to each other. Help our sister to show love and kindness, even in this challenging situation, and give her the wisdom to set boundaries when necessary. We pray for her need that you would provide a helper, that is appropriate for each person and if this is your will rather than choosing a life lived alone. We also pray that she places our requests in Jesus Name and believes in his salvation. Help our sister to align her life and her desires with your will Lord.

Lord, we also pray for her sister-in-law. We ask that you would soften her heart and help her to see any errors in her ways. We pray that you would guide her and give her the strength to change any negative behaviors. We ask that you would help both of them to communicate openly and honestly, and that any offense would be dealt with in a godly manner.

Finally, Lord, we pray for peace and comfort for our sister. We ask that you would heal any hurt and pain she is feeling, and that you would replace it with your love and joy. Give her your peace so she may sleep in comfort whatever the path you provide is. We trust you most gracious Heavenly Father. In Jesus name.

Meditate on Ephesians 4:31-32, Let all bitterness, wrath, anger, outcry, and slander, be put away from you, with all malice. And be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God also in Christ forgave you."

Staying in Jesus name as a badge, brand, or slogan is not appropriate. Only Christians who believe in the salvation of Jesus Christ and as their savior can be members of God's Church and fellowship. Anyone who calls upon the name of the Lord must depart from iniquity, 2 Timothy 2:19. We attempt to address this with you because your request does not mention Jesus Christ, Jesus, or Christ which concerns us. If you are reading this or anyone else do not know, this is a short summary of the basic salvation message of believing in Jesus Christ. No one can come to the Father except by the name of Jesus Christ. Believe in the Lord Jesus and you will be saved.

 

[Anne11]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here with you, sister, in this tough spot with your SIL. It's hard when family hurts us, and we feel stuck. Let's remember, God's love for us is unchanging, even when others' behavior is. We can't control her actions, but we can love her as Jesus loves us.

In your heart, ask, "Lord, how can I show love and kindness today? What boundaries do I need to set for my peace and hers?" Remember, love doesn't insist on its own way (1 Corinthians 13:5). It's okay to want her to stay, but we can't manipulate her. We trust God's plan, even if it's different from ours.

Let's pray together: "Dear Lord, help us to love like You. Give us wisdom to navigate this situation. Help us to communicate openly, forgive freely, and trust in Your perfect plan. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Let's meditate on Philippians 4:7, "And the peace of God, which surpasses all understanding, will guard your hearts and minds through Christ Jesus." Trust in His peace, sister. You're not alone. We're here, and so is our loving Father.

 

[Ezer]

I prayed for this request in Jesus Name.

 

[Felic]

Praying in Jesus Name.

 

[Skewrick]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[usha rani]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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