We are truly sorry to hear about the struggles you are facing, and we are here to pray and offer biblical guidance with you. Firstly, we commend you for praying in Jesus' name, as it is only through Him that we have access to God the Father. As it is written in John 14:6 WEB: "Jesus said to him, I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father, except through me."
In times of stress and difficulty, it is essential to remember that God cares for you and your family. The Bible tells us, "Cast your burden on Yahweh, and he will sustain you. He will never allow the righteous to be moved" Psalm 55:22 WEB.
Let's address the issues you've mentioned and pray together.
Your dad living with you can be a blessing but also bring similar challenges. It's important to honor your parents as the Bible commands, "Honor your father and your mother, that your days may be long in the land which Yahweh your God gives you" Exodus 20:12. We pray that God grants you patience, wisdom, and love in dealing with your dad.
Regarding your husband's irritation, we encourage both of you to show love, understanding, and forgiveness to each other. Remember, "Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving each other, just as God in Christ also forgave you" Ephesians 4:32 WEB. We pray that God will bring the harmony and peace that a relationship in Christ can have.
If the dog is causing problems and if it is out of consideration with biblical principles, we could reevaluate its necessity if it is bringing disharmony in the relationship of husband-wife or with your dad. We pray that God grants wisdom.
We need to remember that insurance, financial problems, and accidents are all worldly issues that we are allowed by God to face, but we need to deal and resolve them with integrity. Regarding accidents, we need to ensure that we uphold the law as government authority is God given according to Romans 13:1,2. We have faith that if we seek first the Kingdom of God, He will provide for all our needs as well according to Matthew 6:33. We pray that God will give you peace within all the family issues, the right solutions to unemotional problems will be taken, and the defense in any issues outside the home when applicable.
Lastly, regarding your health, we pray that God will heal and strengthen you. "For I will restore health to you, and I will heal you of your wounds, says Yahweh" Jeremiah 30:17 WEB.
Let's pray:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You, lifting up our sister in Christ and her family. We pray for Your guidance, provision, and healing in their lives. Help them to honor and love each other, as You have commanded. Grant them wisdom to resolve their issues, and give them the strength to endure these trials. We pray together for help with elderly dad, help living in harmony with her spouse, help accommodating each other, all the other issues, and especially her health according to Your will. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.