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[Swantalelf]

Protect me from my husband’s lies and problems. Forgive me for my sins and lashing out. Take away my urge to drink. I am scared and worried of losing everything. I feel like a failure as a mother. Am I the problem? I did not know what I was doing was wrong. I hope anyone I hurt will forgive me and have peace and happiness. Please let anyone I hurt reach out to me, so I can make things right. I am so sorry for being ungrateful. It hurts when people think I am trying to control them or nag when I am trying to stop them from hurting themselves. I am not trying to make them feel bad or treat them like a child. I was holding them accountable. They refuse to go to therapy with me although they have issues with everything I do, feel, or say. They want me to be superficial. I am not fake. I face my problems. I want to talk things out, but they say I cannot let things go. They have the wrong information, so it is hard to fix things when I cannot talk about it. My addressing these issues makes them uncomfortable. We remind each other of the problem. I admit that I handle things poorly, but I did the best I could.

 

[Articles]

We understand that you're going through a challenging time, Swantalelf, and we're here to pray with you and provide biblical guidance.

Firstly, let's address the issues you've raised and turn to the Word of God for guidance. It's important to acknowledge the power of forgiveness and reconciliation, as mentioned in Colossians 3:13, Forbearing one another, and forgiving each other, if any man has a complaint against any; even as Christ forgave you, so you also do.. This applies to both you and your husband.

Regarding the urge to drink, God reminds us in Ephesians 5:18, Do not be drunken with wine, for that is reckless living. But be filled with the Spirit. We pray that God will help you overcome this urge and fill you with His Holy Spirit.

As for feeling like a failure as a mother, remember the encouraging words of the apostle Paul in 2 Corinthians 12:9, Most gladly therefore I will rather glory in my weaknesses, that the power of Christ may rest on me. God's strength is made perfect in our weakness.

Here is our heartfelt prayer for you:

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You, lifting up Swantalelf who is in desperate need of Your grace and mercy. We ask that You forgive her sins and help her to overcome the urge to drink. Help her to be the mother You have called her to be, and give her strength and wisdom in her role as a wife. Help her to address the difficult issues in her life and marriage. Help her to hold onto her faith while going through these struggles. We pray that you will hold her up through the storms of life.

Lord, we also pray for her husband. We ask that You soften his heart and help him to see the error of his ways. We pray that You will bring conviction upon him and that he will seek Your face and turn from his lies and manipulation. We pray that You will bring unity to their marriage and help them to communicate effectively.

Help Swantalelf to continue this process and not give up on reconciliation. We pray that her husband will come to understand the extent of the damage he has caused. Help them to work through their issues in a constructive and biblical manner. We also pray for the salvation of her husband if he does not know Christ.

Father, we ask that all of this be done in the name of Jesus Christ. Jesus said, I am the way and the truth and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.Understanding that it is only in the name of Jesus Christ that we can approach God. Through Him, anyone may have access to You, Heavenly Father. May the salvation message be made known through this trial. Father, please be a central figure in all of these issues.

In the precious name of Jesus Christ, we pray. Amen.

Lastly, Swantalelf, it's crucial to remember that true change and healing come from committing your life to Jesus Christ. If you haven't already done so, confess to your sins and believe in Jesus Christ. Turn from your sinful ways. Believe in the Lord Jesus Christ and you shall be saved, you and your household. It is the only way and it is through no other.

We encourage you to continue praying and studying the Bible. Seek godly counsel from your pastor or a trusted Christian mentor. Do not rely on your own strength, but trust in the Lord with all your heart, and do not lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge Him, And He will make your paths straight. We urge you both to pursue biblical marriage counseling to address the deep-seated issues in your relationship. Be on alert for all temptations and immorality. These things an assault against the sanctity of marriage. Pursue Christ in all things and resurrect Christian principles in your life. Do not waiver in your faith. Do not trust yourself but in the counsel of God through your pastor or a trusted Christian mentor.

Please do not feel as though you are trying to be controlling. God will use you to convict your husband, but we ask that you allow Him into the circumstances entirely. Make sure that all decisions and issues are put into Gods hands as well and that there is nothing out of line with biblical principles. Again, we urge you to make sure everything in your marriage lines up with biblical principles

 

[hostadmin]

Dear Swantalelf,

We're here for you, standing with you in prayer. We understand that it's tough, but remember, God is always by your side, even in the storms.

Firstly, we want to remind you that forgiveness is key. As it's written in Ephesians 4:32, "Be kind and compassionate to one another, forgiving each other, just as in Christ God forgave you." This applies to both you and your husband. Forgiveness doesn't mean what happened is okay, but it's a way to let go of the hurt and bitterness that can consume you.

We know you're struggling with the urge to drink. We're praying for strength for you, that you'll turn to God instead. Remember, as it's written in Galatians 5:16, "So I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not gratify the desires of the flesh." God will help you overcome this, one step at a time.

You feel like a failure as a mother, but remember, God sees your heart. He knows your struggles and your love for your family. As it's written in 2 Corinthians 12:9, "My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness." You're not alone, and God is with you every step of the way.

We're praying for your husband too. We're asking God to soften his heart, to help him see the pain he's causing, and to turn towards God. We're praying for unity in your marriage, for open and honest communication, and for God's will to be done.

Please, keep talking about these issues. It's hard, but it's necessary. And remember, God is bigger than any problem. Trust in Him, and He will guide you through.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Keep fighting, Swantalelf. We're with you.

 

[Pelbun]

Praying for this in Jesus Name.

 

[Cinu]

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)


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[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[usha rani]

Praying in Jesus Name.

 

[hostadmin]

We continue to lift you up in prayer, dear sister, and we are grateful for the opportunity to stand in agreement with you before our Heavenly Father. We pray that God has begun to protect you from your husband's lies and problems, and that He has started to mend the brokenness in your relationship. We hope that you have found forgiveness for your sins and that the urge to drink has begun to subside.

If God has already answered your prayers, we would love to hear your praise report, so we can rejoice with you and give glory to God. If your request has not yet seemed to be answered, we want to assure you that we are still here, ready to continue praying with you and for you.

We pray that God has given you courage and comfort in your fears and worries, and that He has shown you that you are not a failure as a mother. We ask God to reveal to you the truth about your situation, and to help you see that His grace is sufficient for you. We pray that anyone you have hurt will find it in their hearts to forgive you, and that they will reach out to you so that you can make things right.

We ask God to help you communicate effectively with your loved ones, and to give you the strength to hold them accountable in a loving and respectful way. We pray that they will see the truth in your intentions and that they will be open to addressing the issues at hand.

Please know that we are still here, ready to support you and pray for you in every step of your journey. May God bless you as you continue to seek Him through His son, Jesus Christ. We pray all these things in Jesus Name.