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Swantalelf · Nov 30, 2024

Forgive me for my ugly words and evil thoughts I had about my family. My husband said I drove him away. He would rather sleep in his car. It is cold, too. No one told him to leave. He has gotten himself in a big financial mess. He is being sued, and he cannot afford to pay the bills. Now he has to move out. He got a storage unit. All he is worried about is football and being a good grandfather in the future. He was sitting up mad at me when he is lying and withholding information. One of us is crazy. I know what he said and what he did, but he wishes to deny it. Please let them all need me. Please never let me need them or anyone else. I will do right by them. I refused to put my husband’s package outside. He needs to show me respect and come to the door like a man. He needs to grow up. He needs to develop a relationship with you. I hope he lives to regret all the hurt and pain he caused with his lies and selfishness. I hope he has no one to blame but himself. Please let him be respectful towards me and leave me alone if he means me no good. What is the truth? Please reveal to me whatever he said that was the truth. He lies like he breathes. I pray any anger he has towards me it returns back to him. I pray he is treated how he treated me. I pray to learn what my problem is so no one will misunderstand me again. I pray not to lose or ruin anymore relationships. Please send me video to learn how to fix my tone and communication skills. I ask for help, but it is a problem, too.

Articles · Nov 30, 2024

Let's bring these struggles to the Lord together, Swantalelf, trusting in His goodness and guidance.

Firstly, it's important to address the spiritual foundation of our requests. We have access to God only through the name of Jesus Christ. It is by His sacrifice that we are saved and can approach God's throne with confidence. As it is written in Acts 4:12 WEB: "There is salvation in none other, for neither is there any other name under heaven, that is given among men, by which we must be saved." Let's ensure we are aligned with this truth as we pray.

In your request, you've mentioned the struggles in your marriage and the challenging behaviors you both have exhibited. God's design for marriage is clear: it is a lifelong commitment where a man and a woman become one flesh, as outlined in Matthew 19:5-6 WEB: "'For this cause a man shall leave his father and mother, and shall join to his wife; and the two shall become one flesh.' So that they are no more two, but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, don't let man tear apart."

It's crucial to address the issues that do not align with biblical principles. Harsh words, evil thoughts, disrespect, lies, and wishes of regret or harm are not fruit of the Spirit but evidence of the flesh. Galatians 5:19-21 WEB warns: "Now the works of the flesh are obvious, which are: adultery, sexual immorality, uncleanness, lustfulness, idolatry, sorcery, hatred, strife, jealousies, outbursts of anger, rivalries, divisions, heresies, envyings, murders, drunkenness, orgies, and things like these; of which I forewarn you, even as I also forewarned you, that those who practice such things will not inherit the Kingdom of God."

Let's pray for God's intervention, for His will to be done, and for both of you to be transformed by the Holy Spirit.

Dear Heavenly Father,

We come before You in the name of Jesus Christ, lifting up Swantalelf and her husband. Lord, You know the depths of their struggles, the pain they've caused each other, and the healing they both desperately need.

Father, we pray for forgiveness on behalf of Swantalelf for the harsh words and evil thoughts she has had. We ask that You soften her heart and help her to love her husband as You have loved us, even when we were still sinners. We pray for her husband, that You would convict him of his lies and disrespect, and draw him to Yourself.

Lord, we pray for their marriage to be restored and aligned with Your will. Help them to see each other through Your eyes, to forgive as You have forgiven us, and to love as You have loved us.

We pray for Swantalelf's communication skills to be improved, Lord. Help her to speak with love, kindness, and respect, reflecting the fruit of the Spirit. We pray for her husband's financial struggles, that You would provide for his needs and guide him in wisdom.

Most importantly, Lord, we pray for their salvation and sanctification. Draw them both to Your Son, Jesus Christ, that they may believe in Him and be saved. Fill them with Your Holy Spirit, transforming their hearts and minds to be more like You.

Teach them Your truth, Lord. Guide them in Your will. Help them to be lights in this world, reflecting Your love and grace.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Swantalelf, continue to seek the Lord with all your heart. Trust in Him, and He will direct your paths. Put on love, which is the bond of perfection. And let the peace of Christ rule in your hearts, to which indeed you were called in one body; and be thankful. (Colossians 3:14-15 WEB)

hostadmin · Nov 30, 2024

We're here with you, sister. It's tough when the person you love the most hurts you, but remember, God is always by your side. We need to keep our hearts pure and our words kind, even in the face of adversity. Let's pray together.

Dear Lord,

We come to you today, burdened but hopeful. We lift up our sister and her husband, asking for your healing touch on their marriage. Help them to see each other through your eyes of love and compassion.

Lord, we ask for forgiveness for the harsh words and evil thoughts that have been exchanged. Help them to speak only words that build up, not tear down. Give them the strength to apologize and the courage to forgive.

We pray for their financial struggles, Lord. Provide for their needs and guide them in wisdom. Help them to trust in you, even in the midst of uncertainty.

But most importantly, Lord, we pray for their hearts. Draw them both to you. Help them to see the truth in your word and to live according to it. Fill them with your Holy Spirit, transforming their hearts and minds to be more like you.

In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.

Keep trusting in the Lord, sister. He sees your pain and he's working it all out for your good.

Cinu · Nov 30, 2024

Lord, we pray for this prayer and family for blessings healing and salvation. Heal and bless. May their lives be a praise and glory unto thee.
Come to the Lord's holy presence. Seek him with all your heart. Cling to his Word and meditate on it moment by moment by positive thoughts and joy in the heart (James 1:2-4), knowing that the Lord is good and to him be all the praise. Seek first God's kingdom and his righteousness (Matthew 6:33). Even though life may feel hard, the Lord's hand will be on you, and he will answer in his time. I am praying for you. Amen.

Some resources that might help.

Needs: - But my God shall supply all your need according to his riches in glory by Christ Jesus. Philippians 4:19(KJV)

Salvation: - So they said "Believe on the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved you and your household." Acts 16:31(NKJV)

Healing: - But He was wounded for our transgressions, He was bruised for our iniquities; The chastisement for our peace was upon Him, And by His stripes we are healed. Isaiah 53:5(NKJV)

Fulfillment by the Holy Spirit: - Then he answered and spake unto me, saying, This is the word of the LORD unto Zerubbabel, saying, Not by might, nor by power, but by my spirit, saith the LORD of hosts. Zechariah 4:6(KJV)

Persecutions: - But I say unto you which hear, Love your enemies, do good to them which hate you, Bless them that curse you, and pray for them which despitefully use you. Luke 6:27-28(KJV)

Help in Prayer

Dwelling and Thriving in God’s grace where everything happens for good (Romans 8:28)

Pray that the Lord may open the eyes of the nations affected by coronavirus (Specifically forces against God’s people)

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May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

hostadmin · Dec 6, 2024

We continue to lift you up in prayer, dear sister, and we are truly honored that you have allowed us to stand in agreement with you before the Lord. We remain hopeful that you have experienced a touch from God as we have petitioned Him regarding your family and your husband. If God has already moved mightily and answered your prayer, we would be blessed to hear your praise report and rejoice with you. If you are still waiting for a breakthrough, please don't hesitate to share your request again, so we can continue to intercede for you. We trust that God, in His perfect timing and wisdom, is working all things together for your good and His glory. Please know that our prayers are not just for your husband's change of heart, but also for your own healing, wisdom, and communication skills. We pray that God reveals truth to you about this situation. We are asking the Lord to mend and restore your relationships, and to give you both a heart of forgiveness and a spirit of humility.

We are praying that you can know the Truth. The Bible tells us in John 8:32 - 'And ye shall know the truth, and the truth shall make you free'.

We pray all of this in Jesus Christ's name. Amen.