We understand that you're going through a difficult time, Swantalelf, and we're here to pray with you and offer biblical guidance.
Firstly, it's important to remember that Jesus Christ is the only way to God the Father. It is only through His name that we can approach God. May want to meditate on the scripture in John 14:6,"Jesus said to him, 'I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me.'"
In dealing with your children, it's crucial to understand that communication is key. The Bible encourages us to be open and honest with one another, speaking the truth in love (Ephesians 4:15). Even when it's difficult, encouraging open dialogue can help bridge gaps and heal wounds. Pray for God to open the doors of communication, and like the prophet Samuel , dedicate your children to the Lord for His guidance and nurturing 1 Samual 1:27-28.
Regarding your ex-husband, it's important to trust God with your situation. Remember that God is your provider and protector (Psalm 54:4). Pray for his heart to be softened. Romans 2:4,states, 'Or do you despise the riches of his goodness, forbearance, and patience, not knowing that the goodness of God leads you to repentance?' Repentence and forgiveness is always the objective. The reality is that seeking revenge or holding a grudge is only destructive (Leviticus 19:18).
Concerning your forms and professionalism, trust in God's strength to help you accomplish what you need to do ( Philippians 4:13), and remember that God calls us to do everything with excellence, as if we're working for Him (Colossians 3:23).
For your children and all those who you feel may have been hurt, we will pray for forgiveness and reconciliation. God is faithful to heal broken relationships when both parties are willing and even when it is just you. Psalms chapters 34:17 states the Lord hears when the righteous cry out.
For peace of mind (Proverbs 9:11), pray that God will guard your heart and mind with His peace (Philippians 4:7). Yes, it is a commandment not to worry. Don't be anxious about anything. Let your requests be made to God (Philippians 4:6). Worrying is not going to fix a thing, but God's grace and guidance will always get you through any situation. Return to the cross of Christ and keep your eyes on the Chrtistian life you are called to led.
Let's pray together:
Dear Heavenly Father,
We come before You in Jesus Christ's mighty name, lifting up Swantalelf. Lord, we pray for open communication and healing between her and her children. We think of 1 Samuel 1:27-28 and pray that you will open the doors of communication. May they restore their relationship in your timing. We pray for Swantalelf's ex-husband, that You would soften his heart and guide him to do what is right and just regarding the life insurance policy and health insurance, providing based on John 14:6 that humans do not have access to God except through Jesus Christ. May this come to Swantalef's aid for dealing with the contention that may be going on in their home. Help her as the filer to get the forms completed and resolved. We pray the base human reaction from others of "an eye for an eye" does not take a foothold but that Godly hearts and repentence and forgiveness from both parties. We are to love and not hate each other even when caused pain. Sometimes it is the offending party that will need to realize this and repent. We pray that anyone Swantalelf has hurt will forgive her just as Christ forgives, and pray that she may always conduct herself professionally.
We also pray that Swantalelf can overcome her fears. May she know that Jesus was resurrected for us, and that he willingly went to the cross for our errors and our trials. She may be hard pressed by trials, but she is not destoyed. We know, that it is not God's will that man should suffer, and that the trail they are now going through is due to the sin in the world. that Jesus came to restore.
May she know that you care about her personally. Thank you for the gift of salvation that is only come through Jesus Christ. .
We ask all these things in Jesus Christ's name.
Amen.
God be with you as you navigate these challenges, and may He grant you strength, and grace. He wants you to call out to him, and he is there for your when you do. Do not be ashamed to repent and change your ways when the Holy Spirit convicts you that you may have made errors. Repentence gives us relief knowing that our slate has been wiped clean and we can move forward with discernment to avoid making those errors in the future. This is all part of the growth of the sainctification process. At the Judgement of God that is coming soon, we will be recieved into the family of God for being saved and making it a priority during your life to live Christ like. Otherwise, there is God's wrath that can not be in our realm of understanding. And no one has a righ to complain that they did not know because that is the human condition according to John 2:15-17. Be wise and learn His ways so that you will be safe on the day of judgement. The book of Matthew in the WEB bible bring this out strongly. This is something you should study to give meaning to your life and advantages in navigating the path of life. For even our trials and tribulations can be greatly used for the benefit of others on earth and to build up our treasure in heaven.
May God's spirit illuminate this for you and for others reading this for your growth into the Christian walk. Wise men shine as a bright lamps in the universe of life, holding out the word of lifeto the glory of God the Father.