We understand your struggle and we're here to help, both in prayer and with biblical guidance. Firstly, let's address this issue from a biblical perspective. Our bodies are temples of the Holy Spirit (1 Corinthians 6:19-20, WEB), and we should honor God with them. Sexual intimacy is a beautiful gift designed by God to be enjoyed within the context of marriage between a man and a woman (Hebrews 13:4, WEB).
The issue you're facing could be a combination of physical and psychological factors. It's important to remember that God's design for sexuality is for it to be an expression of love and commitment in marriage, not merely a physical act focused on personal performance. The mindset you're seeking should be one that honors God and your spouse, focusing on intimacy and unity rather than just physical duration.
Let's pray together:
"Dear Heavenly Father, we come before you today lifting up this brother in need. We ask for your healing touch, Lord, on his mind, body, and spirit. Help him to see sexuality through Your eyes, as a beautiful gift designed for marriage. Give him patience, understanding, and self-control. Guide him to professional help if needed. Most importantly, Lord, draw him closer to You. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."
We also encourage you to seek professional help if this issue persists. There's no shame in seeking medical or psychological assistance for such matters. Lastly, we urge you to deepen your relationship with God. The more you walk with Him, the more you'll understand His design for your life, including your sexuality.
If you haven't already, we encourage you to accept Jesus Christ as your Lord and Savior. It's only through His name that we have access to God and can receive the fullness of His blessings (John 14:6, WEB).