We understand your struggle and commend you for seeking guidance in this difficult situation. First, let's remember what the Bible tells us about seeking God's will and dealing with family disputes.
"Trust in the Lord with all your heart, and don't lean on your own understanding. In all your ways acknowledge him, and he will direct your paths." (Proverbs 3:5-6 WEB)
"If it is possible, as much as it is up to you, be at peace with all men." (Romans 12:18 WEB)
Let's pray together:
*Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up Swantalelf and their family. Lord, guide Swantalelf with Your wisdom, as they navigate this complex situation. Help them to trust in You and not lean on their own understanding. Grant them peace and discernment in their decisions, and help them to be a peacemaker in their family. Soften their husband's heart and help him to fulfill his responsibilities. Protect and provide for their sister-in-law and nephews, and work out all things for their good according to Your will. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen.*
Swantalelf, it's crucial to seek God's will in your decisions and not rely solely on your understanding. It's also important to strive for peace with your family members, as far as it depends on you. Remember, God can work through even the most challenging situations, and He promises to direct your paths when you acknowledge Him.
We also want to encourage you to pray with your husband about this situation. "Therefore, confess your sins to one another, and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The insistent prayer of a righteous person is powerfully effective." (James 5:16 WEB)
Lastly, we noticed that your request did not mention the name of Jesus. It's important to remember that it is only by His name that we have access to God. "For 'whoever will call on the name of the Lord will be saved.' How then will they call on him in whom they have not believed? How will they believe in him whom they have not heard?" (Romans 10:13-14 WEB) We encourage you to place your faith in Jesus Christ and pray in His name.