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[Shylsath]

Please help! I’m tired of living. I live with my in laws. My MIL treats me like dirt whilst she loves her other DIL who also lives with us. My husband is never on my side and sides with his mum. She is cruel and mean and treats me very very badly. I have a 13 month year old. I’m turning to God bye he isn’t listening to my cries for help. Please advise me! Anyone please help me! Please im begging all of you! I need some help!

 

[Articles]

Dear Shylsath, we are deeply concerned about your situation and want you to know that you are not alone. First and foremost, let us remind you that God hears your cries and cares about your suffering. As it is written in Psalm 34:18, "Yahweh is near to those who have a broken heart, and saves those who have a crushed spirit."

In your distress, we encourage you to continue turning to God, but it is crucial to approach Him through Jesus Christ. Jesus said, "I am the way, the truth, and the life. No one comes to the Father except through me" (John 14:6, WEB). If you haven't already, place your faith in Jesus Christ as your Savior, and trust that He is the mediator between you and God.

Regarding your living situation, it is important to remember that God calls us to love and honor one another, even in difficult relationships. However, this does not mean you should accept abuse or mistreatment. We advise you to have an open and honest conversation with your husband about how his mother's behavior and his lack of support make you feel. Remind him of your marriage vows and the biblical principle of leaving and cleaving, as stated in Genesis 2:24, "Therefore a man will leave his father and his mother, and will join with his wife, and they will be one flesh."

It is also crucial to set boundaries with your mother-in-law to protect yourself and your child from further mistreatment. If necessary, seek outside help from a trusted pastor, counselor, or mentor. Remember that you are valuable and deserve to be treated with kindness and respect.

Let us pray for you:

Dear Heavenly Father, we come before You in Jesus' name, lifting up Shylsath in her time of need. Lord, we ask that You comfort her heart and strengthen her spirit. Give her wisdom in navigating her relationships with her mother-in-law and husband, and help her set boundaries that protect her and her child. Draw her husband's heart towards her and bring unity to their marriage. We also pray that Shylsath will come to know You better through faith in Jesus Christ. In His precious name, we pray. Amen.

Stay strong in faith, Shylsath. Trust in the Lord, and remember that He loves you deeply and has a purpose for your life. Keep seeking Him and praying in Jesus' name, and do not give up hope.

 

[hostadmin]

We're here for you, Shylsath. We've been where you are, feeling overwhelmed and alone, but remember, God is always with you. He sees your tears and hears your cries. In Psalm 147:3, it says, "He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds."

We understand that your situation is tough, but please keep turning to God. Trust in Jesus, for He said, "Come to me, all you who are weary and burdened, and I will give you rest" (Matthew 11:28). He is our refuge and strength, a very present help in times of trouble (Psalm 46:1).

We know it's hard, but try to have an open conversation with your husband about how his mother's behavior affects you. Remind him of your marriage vows and the importance of unity in your relationship (Genesis 2:24). Also, set boundaries with your mother-in-law to protect yourself and your child. If needed, seek help from a trusted pastor, counselor, or mentor.

Let's pray together:

"Dear Heavenly Father, we lift up Shylsath to You. Comfort her heart, Lord, and give her strength. Help her navigate her relationships with wisdom and grace. Draw her husband's heart towards her, and bring unity to their marriage. In Jesus' name, we pray. Amen."

Stay strong, Shylsath. Trust in the Lord, and don't give up hope. He loves you deeply and has a purpose for your life. Keep seeking Him and praying in Jesus' name. You're not alone; we're here with you.

 

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I prayed for this request in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[Elizabeth F]

Praying in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

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I have prayed for you in Jesus name

 

[The Encourager]

May God in Jesus' name answer your prayer request according to God's perfect love, wisdom, will, timing, grace, and mercy. Thank You Jesus!!!

Psalm 37:4: Delight yourself in the Lord, And He shall give you the desires of your heart.
Matthew 6:33: But seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things shall be added to you.

Prayer Focus: God, Thank You for loving me. Thank You for loving me, Jesus. God, I ask You in Jesus’ name bless me with everything that I stand in need of and everything You want me to have. Bless me to know You in truth, fall in love with You with all my heart, soul, mind, and strength and never fall out of love with You. Bless me to have an ever growing closer stronger, more intimate relationship with You. Bless me with the love, desire, strength, and the spirit of obedience to always delight myself in You, seek first Your kingdom, and Your righteousness. Help and strengthen me God to always respect and obey You. Bless me to trust You with all my heart, acknowledge You in all my ways, and lean not to my own understanding.

God heal me. Deliver and cleansed me of everything in my life that doesn't honor You. God bless me to prosper, walk in excellent health, and never stop growing in the grace and knowledge of Christ Jesus. Transform and renew my mind. Bless me with love, power, and a sound mind. Let the mind that is in Christ Jesus be in me. Bless me to have and operate with a God solution focused heart, mind, spirit, and attitude. Bless me to have a God Kingdom Culture Mentality. God be with me as a mighty warrior. Let no weapon formed against me prosper. Protect me from all the plans of my enemies and the plans of the enemy of my soul. God, all that I have asked of You, in this prayer, please do the same for the writer of the prayer, all those who love and care about me, and all those I love and care about. God, please forever honor this prayer over each of our lives. God Thank You. Amen, so be it by faith, and by faith, it is so. Prayer written by Encourager Linda Flagg, M.A., Board Certified Professional Christian Life Coach.

 

[usha rani]

I prayed for this in Jesus Name. Amen.

 

[hostadmin]

Thank you for giving us the privilege to pray on your behalf. We are glad that that you asked us to stand in agreement with you in prayer. If your request was answered, please post a praise report and let us all know. If your request does not seem to have been answered, please post it again as a new request and allow us to continue with you in prayer. We all hope that our prayers are answered in the way that we want. Sometimes we believe that God is not answering our prayers because we do not see what we expect. In these cases, we should persist in prayer and determine how God is answering our prayer. May God bless you as you continue to seek him through his son, Jesus Christ.