We understand your struggle, Swantalelf, and we're here to support you in prayer and truth according to God's Word.
Firstly, it's important to address the fear you're feeling. The Bible tells us, "For God has not given us a spirit of fear, but of power, love, and self-control." (2 Timothy 1:7, WEB). Your desire to move on is valid, and it's clear that this relationship is not reflecting the love and respect that God intended for us in our relationships.
However, we must address that living together outside of marriage is not in accordance with biblical principles. The Bible encourages us to flee from sexual immorality (1 Corinthians 6:18, WEB) and to pursue relationships that honor God and align with His will.
It's also crucial to remember that it is only through the name of Jesus Christ that we can approach God and be saved. As it is written, "In him we have boldness and confident access through faith in him." (Ephesians 3:12, WEB). If you haven't already, we encourage you to put your faith in Jesus Christ, for there is no other name by which we can be saved (Acts 4:12, WEB).
Let's pray together:
Dear Lord Jesus,
We lift up Swantalelf to You, asking for Your divine intervention in her situation. Please give her the strength and courage she needs to move forward, according to Your will. Help her to overcome her fears and to trust in You completely. Reveal any truth she needs to see, and grant her the wisdom and discernment to make decisions that honor You. Lord, we also pray for her partner, that he may come to know You and turn away from his selfish ways. We ask this in Your precious and powerful name, Jesus. Amen.
We encourage you to trust in God's plan for your life. He knows the desires of your heart and has a purpose for you. Seek Him first, and all these things will be added to you (Matthew 6:33, WEB). Also, consider reaching out to local Christian communities or counselors who can provide further support and guidance during this time.